{"id":5924,"date":"2018-12-08T17:55:16","date_gmt":"2018-12-08T23:55:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5924"},"modified":"2021-04-29T04:41:51","modified_gmt":"2021-04-29T09:41:51","slug":"good-homemaker-qualties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/good-homemaker-qualties\/","title":{"rendered":"Qualities of a good homemaker -10 surprisingly unknown traits"},"content":{"rendered":"
Do you know that the qualities of a good homemaker<\/strong> is very different from the qualities of a good wife?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You might be a good and understanding wife. You might be loving and caring towards your husband. But you could be a worse homemaker.<\/p>\n Are you confused?<\/p>\n Hitherto, you had thought that being a good wife automatically meant that you were a good homemaker also.<\/a><\/p>\n Sadly, it is not so.<\/p>\n To be a good wife you need many sensitive qualities.<\/strong><\/p>\n You need to be loving and caring towards your husband.<\/p>\n You must overlook his minor faults.<\/p>\n You must give emotional support to your husband when he direly needs it.<\/p>\n You must not interfere into the duties of your husband towards his family.<\/p>\n You must allow your husband his personsal space.<\/p>\n You must respect your husband.<\/p>\n These are some of the essential characteristics you need to be stamped as a good wife.<\/p>\n But, being a good homemaker needs entirely different qualities from you.<\/a><\/p>\n Being a good homemaker needs more of your management skills. You must be sensitive as well as be sensible.<\/p>\n Being a good homemaker also needs incredible will power from you.<\/p>\n You need to be emotionally strong and stable.<\/p>\n You must be assertive and confident in handling the issues your family consistently faces.<\/p>\n Do you think you need to be confident only in your work place?<\/p>\n No.<\/p>\n You need absolute confidence in dealing with family issues that keep cropping up consistently.<\/p>\n Family issues can be nerve-wracking.<\/p>\n Family problems can exhaust you as it is emotionally draining. This is the reason most of you easily buckle under the pressures you face in your married life.<\/p>\n But if you want to\u00a0 be a good homemaker, you must\u00a0 have the\u00a0 nerves of steel. You must develop an uncanny capacity to deal with any problems that creep into your family life.<\/p>\n Yes!<\/p>\n Family problems should never deter you.<\/p>\n It should never make you tensed.<\/p>\n You should have the flair to handle it with assertiveness.<\/p>\n When you are a good homemaker, you will avoid running to your husband, cribbing about your inability to handle it.<\/p>\n You are so talented in dealing with your family issues with confidence, that you earn the respect of husband effortlessly.<\/p>\n Do you do all the family duties by yourself?<\/p>\n Do you feel you are being a very selfless and generous wife when you let your husband enjoy himself while you slog it all alone?<\/p>\n No.<\/p>\n You are being stupid.<\/p>\n Can you do all the official work in your work place?<\/p>\n You cannot. Work in your profession is always a team work. Your colleagues are as much accountable towards their duties as you are.<\/p>\n It is the same in your family life also.<\/p>\n Every member of your family should do their duties. Your husband is accountable just as you are. Do not slave for your family without time for yourself.<\/p>\n When you are consistently denied your personal space, you lose your\u00a0 identity. And you will find it very tough to mask your irritation and frustration against your husband for very long.<\/p>\n You should train your children to look after themselves.<\/p>\n Your husband should realize that he cannot laze around and expect you to slog alone.<\/p>\n You should make your husband understand his family duties as a husband and as a father. He cannot escape it.<\/p>\n As a good homemaker, allocate family duties to your husband also.<\/p>\n Do you cite your tiredness and keep your house like a pigsty?<\/p>\n A good homemaker never does that.<\/a><\/p>\n Does this mean you should slog alone to keep your house clean?<\/p>\n Not at all.<\/p>\n Teach your children to keep their room tidy from their young age itself.<\/p>\n Make your husband assist you in cleaning the house.<\/p>\n A clean and tidy home is a reflection of your character.<\/p>\n When your home is neat and tidy, it shows your effeciency in multitasking.<\/p>\n And a tidy home drives away your stress and tension comprehensively.<\/p>\n Do you feel the overload of your family duties gives you the leash to look shabby in dirty pajamas?<\/p>\n No.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\nHere is a glimpse into the top 10 management qualities of a good homemaker<\/h2>\n
1. Confidence to deal with problems<\/strong><\/h3>\n
2. Allocation of duties<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3. Cleanliness is next to godliness<\/strong><\/h3>\n
4. Being presentable always<\/strong><\/h3>\n