Do not expect a Xerox copy of your reactions from him.<\/a><\/p>\nHis silence and seeming indifference are actually self-protective armor against your nagging.<\/p>\n
Yes.<\/p>\n
In your frenzied anxiety for the family, you nag your husband threadbare about minor family issues. It makes him uneasy to talk to you because he hates it when you keep pinpointing his mistakes.<\/p>\n
You work yourself up into hysterical worry about the future of your family. Your husband does not understand why you are making a big deal about the future which is years away.<\/p>\n
You want your home to look neat always. So, you screech and yell at your children when they make a mess of your home.<\/p>\n
Your husband hates it when you yell at the children. He feels a home should a home, with its share of disorderliness and messiness. He also feels that children will always be children, very prone to be messy and disordered.<\/p>\n
You are very hospitable when your parents visit you. But you are cold and stiff when his family visits you.<\/p>\n
Your poor husband is frustrated and angered at your behavior. He is also annoyed when you prevent him from helping his parents. It infuriates him when you deny him the right to be a dutiful son.<\/p>\n
Your husband shows his disapproval by being cold and formal when your parents visit you.<\/p>\n
He is demoralized when you nag him about his incapacity to earn as good as his friends\\colleagues. When you keep cribbing about wanting money and more money for the family, your husband feels you are too greedy.<\/p>\n
He is irritated when you compare him with your more successful friends\\relatives. Comparing him with others is something he can never tolerate.<\/p>\n
‘Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.’ Zig Ziglar<\/strong><\/p>\nCONCLUSION<\/h4>\n Your husband feels sad when you do not understand his love. He is incapable of defending as he does not know what to say words when you accuse him of indifference towards the family.<\/p>\n
This is the reason he never interacts with you when at home. His shattered ego makes him behave in such an insensitive way that makes you think your husband is unloving and uncaring towards you.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t expect a cinematic husband. He exists only in movies.<\/p>\n
Your husband just wants you to understand that his male attitude does not mean he is unfeeling and insensitive. He is just as loving as you are. Only that he does know how to show it.<\/p>\n
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Most of you feel that your husband is unloving and uncaring towards you, don\u2019t you? What makes you feel that your husband is unloving and uncaring towards you? It is because he does not show his care and love, as you want him to. Your husband is also very deadpan and expressionless to your emotions. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[186,1204,1205,1203],"yoast_head":"\n
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