{"id":5961,"date":"2019-02-05T11:58:50","date_gmt":"2019-02-05T17:58:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5961"},"modified":"2021-02-22T02:19:58","modified_gmt":"2021-02-22T08:19:58","slug":"doubts-married-porn-addict-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/doubts-married-porn-addict-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"7 alarming signs of a porn addict husband"},"content":{"rendered":"
Being married to a porn addict husband can be nerve wracking and distressing, to say the least.<\/p>\n
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Every marriage has its own share of problems and issues. It is a harsh fact that a problem free marriage does not exist for anyone. Problems come and go in your married life and you handle it as and when issues creep into your relationship<\/p>\n
But addictions are not relationship problems. Addiction is a mental disease. They are leeches which suck the element of happiness away from your life.<\/p>\n
Yes!<\/p>\n
Certain addictions can leave your marriage in shambles. When your spouse is addicted to something which is not socially acceptable, your total world crumbles under your feet.<\/p>\n
Addiction brings endless trauma to your married life.<\/p>\n
What is an addiction?<\/p>\n
Any habit over which you have no control, and which controls you is an addiction. Most of you think that alcoholism; drugs and gambling are the common addictions which wrecks your marriage.<\/p>\n
No.<\/p>\n
You are wrong.<\/p>\n
There is an addiction worse than these.<\/p>\n
It is porn addiction.<\/p>\n
“I am going to divorce my husband”Amrita, my friend told me with tears welling in her ears.<\/p>\n
“What happened Amrita? I thought both were happy with each other” I was completely baffled when Amrita told me that she was going to divorce her husband.<\/p>\n
“Even I thought I was lucky to have married a hardworking and successful person. But of late, the behavior of my husband was confusing to me. He has changed so much that I feel I am living with a stranger” my friend looked absolutely shattered.<\/p>\n
“He would shut himself in his room for hours. He never interacts with the children. He never talks with me. And nowadays he never has sex with me”Amrita went on with her voice trembling in sadness.<\/p>\n
“My whole world crashed when I accidently saw porn pictures in his mobile. I now realized the reason behind my husband’s indifference. It was his porn addiction” my friend looked dejected and depressed.<\/p>\n
“I tried reasoning with my husband. But he walked out on me. What is the use of continuing in a marriage when your husband does not have basic decency?”she shuddered with revulsion.<\/p>\n
Yes!<\/p>\n
Being married to a porn addict husband is not easy. You want to end your shame and agony by throwing him out of your life.<\/p>\n
When your husband is addicted to porn, you feel shamed and outraged.<\/p>\n
Because it is a sexual perversity, in its worst form.<\/p>\n
Are you alone is having to live with a porn addict husband?<\/p>\n
No.<\/p>\n
You are not.<\/p>\n
It exists in many marriages.<\/p>\n
It is not much discussed because wives fear the social stigma attached to it.<\/p>\n
Are you unlucky to have married a porn addict husband?<\/a><\/p>\n You are on constant struggle to hold your marriage together, aren’t you?<\/p>\n When your husband fantasies about sex in its crudest form, he loses interest in having normal physical relationship with you.<\/p>\n This is the reason you find it very difficult to co-exist with your porn addict husband.<\/p>\n He is not satisfied with the sexual pleasure you give him.<\/p>\n If your husband is addicted to drugs or alcoholism, you find it out easily as he shows it outwardly and openly. But when your husband is addicted to porn, you find it very difficult to pinpoint the uneasiness you feel about him.<\/p>\n lnitially you never really doubt that you are married to a porn addict husband, as you never associate him to such an addiction.<\/p>\n But you have some sort of a nagging doubt about his behavior, don’t you?<\/p>\n His sexual movements becomes more perverse and unrealistic. He compels you to do things which makes you cry out in pain.<\/p>\n This is not what a normal husband would do, isn’t it?<\/p>\n Sex with your husband makes you feel as if your body has been misused by a maniac.<\/p>\n There is another way your husband shows that he has some grave mental problem.<\/p>\n The behavior of your husband undergoes many drastic changes that it literally alarms you.<\/p>\n The totally changed behavior of your husband makes you have all sorts of doubts about him.<\/p>\n Your husband does not involve himself in normal social activities, like meeting friends, going out as a family and playing with your children.<\/p>\n He also distances himself from meeting relatives and friends.<\/p>\n He has his own group of friends whom he does not introduce to you.<\/p>\n You break your head as to why your husband never interacts in a normal way with others.<\/p>\n He is very harsh and cruel when having sexual intercourse with you.<\/p>\n You do not enjoy sex with him. In fact, you are terrified of it, as he deliberately hurts you.<\/a><\/p>\n He behaves as though he was having sex with a stranger. He displays no affection and no inclination to make you sexually satisfied.<\/p>\n Your body aches as if you were attacked after he moves away from you.<\/p>\n You often wonder why your husband is spending tons of time browsing the internet.<\/p>\n He does not allow you near him when he is browsing.<\/p>\n Your porn addict husband shuts himself in the room and never comes out.<\/p>\n His browsing history is often deleted by him.<\/p>\n He keeps changing the password of his mobile so that you cannot have an access to his activities.<\/p>\n Your husband never communicates with you with love.<\/p>\n He never discusses family issues with you.<\/p>\n He never shares family commitments with you.<\/p>\n\n
Here are that tell-tale signs showing that you are married to a porn addict husband.<\/h2>\n
1. Your porn addict husband distances himself from the society<\/strong><\/h2>\n
2. He does not care for your pain<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3. He is glued to the internet<\/strong><\/h3>\n
4. He becomes uncommunicative<\/strong><\/h3>\n