{"id":5966,"date":"2018-02-18T00:38:45","date_gmt":"2018-02-18T05:38:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=5966"},"modified":"2018-02-18T00:38:45","modified_gmt":"2018-02-18T05:38:45","slug":"take-back-your-cheating-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/take-back-your-cheating-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"When can you take back your cheating husband? Top 6 questions to consider"},"content":{"rendered":"

Can you really take<\/strong> back<\/strong> your<\/strong> cheating<\/strong> husband<\/strong> after all the agony he caused you?<\/p>\n

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You are furious with his disloyalty, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Suppose your husband returns to you after cheating you.<\/p>\n

You are angry and enraged at your husband. But, you are also confused about what you should do.<\/p>\n

Should you take back your cheating husband?<\/a><\/p>\n

Or, should you throw him out of your life?<\/p>\n

\u2018You had the audacity to run off with another woman. Now you have come back to me because you are fed up with her.’<\/p>\n

The high-pitched voice of my mother’s friend broke the silence of the still afternoon.<\/p>\n

‘What sort of a man are you? Can you compensate for the hardships I underwent to bring up our children all by myself?\u2019 she yelled at the top of her voice.<\/p>\n

Her husband had left her for another woman and now he had returned home after many years. My mother had witnessed the hardships her friend faced as a single parent. She felt that her friend was fully justified in her anger.<\/p>\n

The next day she came to see my mother, \u2018I accepted my husband. I could have easily rejected him, but I did not want him to get away that easily. This is his last chance and I will see to it that he does all I expect him to do for the family\u2019 she told my mother with grim determination.<\/p>\n

She made good her words and her husband was tamed and subdued to do his duties. Hers is a case of practical acceptance of a cheating husband.<\/p>\n

This happened many years ago when women were more conservative and traditional.<\/p>\n

Now times have changed.<\/p>\n

You have become more aggressive and more assertive. Your husband can no longer take you for granted.<\/p>\n

Mostly, you do not have the patience to take back your cheating husband. You need not too. When you are loyal to your husband, it is only natural you expect the same from him.<\/p>\n

When your husband leaves you for another woman, you mentally throw him away from your life.<\/a><\/p>\n

You try to forget your agony and disappointment by concentrating on your work and in bringing up your children.<\/p>\n

Here is a question to you.<\/p>\n

What would you do when your cheating husband comes back to you, red-faced and asks for an apology?<\/p>\n

Living again with your husband who left you to live with another woman is not an easy joke. You cannot easily forget the bitterness and grief he caused you.<\/p>\n

You are now in a dilemma whether you should take back your cheating husband, aren’t you?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Unless you are sure you can make your relationship work again, do not accept him.<\/p>\n

But, if the embers of love for your cheating husband is still alive, you have a chance to revive your marriage again.<\/p>\n

Shall we see the reasons when you can take back your cheating husband?<\/p>\n

1. When he feels really sorry<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Why does your husband leave you for another woman?<\/a><\/p>\n

It is mostly physical attraction that makes your husband become disloyal to you,<\/p>\n

When he is lured by physical attraction, he loses all control over his senses and becomes a prey to the needs of his flesh.<\/p>\n

But the sly relationship of your husband is very short-lived and fragile. He soon loses his interest in the other woman and the woman loses her interest in him. As there was no true love between them, their relationship loses its newness and freshness quickly.<\/p>\n

After coming to his senses, the first thought that comes to your husband\u2019s mind is you and the children.<\/a><\/p>\n

Your husband wants your love back. He wants his family back. He wants the warm togetherness with his children back.<\/p>\n

If you truly feel you are ready to accept his apologies, you can give your marriage another lease of life.<\/p>\n

2. When you feel he has really changed<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You are in two minds when your husband comes back to you.<\/p>\n

One half of your mind says; never take back your cheating husband.<\/p>\n

But the other half of your mind tells you to accept him.<\/p>\n

Can you never forget the cheating of your husband?<\/p>\n

Never consider taking him back. Your marriage will again plunge into failure.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, do you feel your husband has really changed and would never cheat you again?<\/p>\n

Then you can give him a chance.<\/p>\n

You do not disown your children, even though they commit grave mistakes. You overlook their mistakes and forgive them because your love for them is very intense and powerful.<\/p>\n

Do you remember the case of a world-famous personality who cheated his wife?<\/p>\n

He was accepted by his wife because she loved him that much. She had a very forgiving nature. His cheating is a thing of past in their life and now they are together.<\/p>\n

You too can take back your cheating husband if you really feel he would never cheat you, ever again in his life.<\/p>\n

3. When you still love him<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You are angry when your husband leaves you for another woman. Your agony at his betrayal cannot be easily described.<\/p>\n

The days and nights you spent in tears is like a vivid wound in your mind.<\/p>\n

But above all that, your love for your husband is still not dead. You are sure he also loves you. You yearn to live with him again.<\/p>\n

So, when he begs for forgiveness, you can sympathize and take back your cheating husband.<\/p>\n

4. When you can forget and forgive<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Unless you have the capacity to forget, you will not forgive\u00a0your husband. If you have an\u00a0unforgiving nature, your truce with him will not last.<\/p>\n

You will bring up the topic of his cheating again and again into your arguments. You will find it impossible to behave normally with him.<\/p>\n

Never accept your cheating husband if you have an unforgiving mentality.<\/p>\n

\u2018Can I really begin a new life with him?\u2019<\/p>\n

\u2018Can I forget about the cheating that happened between us?’<\/p>\n

Ask yourself these questions.<\/p>\n

If you feel you can forget and forgive, you can take back your cheating husband.<\/p>\n

5. When your children love him<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Did your husband love his children?<\/p>\n

Was he a good parent?<\/p>\n

Do your children still love him and want him back?<\/p>\n

If you say yes to all these questions, your children needs their father. It means a lot to them.<\/p>\n

When he was away, your children had looked longingly at their friends having enjoyable time with their father. They too want their father back as they still remember the fun times they had with him.<\/p>\n

When you see the longing of your children, you too want to be a family – you, your husband, and your children.<\/p>\n

Nothing to beat the secured feeling of a family, is there?<\/p>\n

You want the laughter back in your children\u2019s face.<\/p>\n

You are sure that reunion with your husband will make them emotionally stable.<\/p>\n

6. When you are practical<\/strong><\/h3>\n

As a practical person, you know that you cannot meet the expenses of the family alone.<\/p>\n

You want your husband to fulfill his commitments for the family.<\/p>\n

\u2018He has done an unforgivable mistake. If I let him off the hook, he will get away easily. He has to be stopped from having fun. Now is the time for him to do some real duties for the family\u2019.<\/p>\n

Does your mind compel you that your husband must be trapped to do his duties?<\/p>\n

You are also practical to the fact that if you go in for divorce, you will lose your peace, your emotional security, and your financial security.<\/p>\n

CONCLUSION<\/h3>\n

Your husband made a fool of himself by listening to the needs of his flesh. When he came to his senses, all he wanted was to come back to you.<\/p>\n

Now the ball is in your court. The decision whether to accept your husband, or reject him is entirely yours.<\/p>\n

If you reject him, you are completely justified.<\/a><\/p>\n

You can take him back if your practicality can make your marriage work again.<\/p>\n

But if you take back your cheating husband, you have to wipe his betrayal clean from your mind. Otherwise, you can never hope of reviving your lost love.<\/p>\n

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