Your married life becomes hostile and heated up when there are frequent headlong ego clashes between you and your spouse.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

When you try to outrun your spouse because you want to emerge the winner at any cost, it can destroy the happiness quotient of your marriage in a real bad way.<\/p>\n

Are you wondering why ego clashes has such terrible impact in your married life?<\/p>\n

It is because when you are egoistic towards your spouse, everything about your married life loses its charm. Your egoistic nature\u00a0 makes the atmosphere in your home scalding and volcanic.<\/p>\n

You become unwilling to listen to the viewpoint of your spouse. You feel you are always in the right and your spouse is always in the wrong.<\/p>\n

This is the reason why ego clashes literally murders your relationship as no other aspect in your marriage can do.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

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• Ego clashes makes both become indifferent towards each other.<\/li>\n
• You are not bothered to make up with your spouse as your ego will never allow you to admit your faults. He\\she too does the same.<\/li>\n
• You want your spouse to tow your line to the dot. And this invariably does not happen as your spouse also feels egoistic.<\/li>\n
• Both do not feel it your duty to make your marriage work.<\/li>\n
• The interaction of both invariably ends in bitter arguments.<\/li>\n
• Both are self-centered and selfish.<\/li>\n
• Both never apologize for the hurt inflicted by the other.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  Why do you behave egoistically towards your spouse?<\/p>\n

  When you feel conceited that you are much better than your spouse in many aspects, you feel you are the supremo of the family.<\/p>\n

  You are too focused on your own comfort level that you are callous towards the feelings of your spouse.<\/p>\n

  And what is the net result of such ego clashes in your marriage?<\/p>\n

  You do not communicate with your spouse with love.<\/p>\n

  You think you are better than your spouse in many ways.<\/p>\n

  You verbally abuse your spouse.<\/p>\n

  You emotionally destroy your spouse.<\/p>\n

  A wide rift develops between you.<\/p>\n

  Your spouse feels neglected and overlooked by you. He\\she feels he\\she has made a huge mistake in marrying you.<\/p>\n

  How will your relationship be when you are egoistic towards your spouse?<\/a><\/p>\n

  Naturally, it is very heated and hostile.<\/p>\n

  Were there such ego clashes between you when you were in love?<\/p>\n

  There was not.<\/p>\n

  Why?<\/p>\n

  Your love for your spouse was that intense and deep. You focused on his\\her good aspects and ignored his\\her bad ones.<\/p>\n

  But after marriage, the scenario changes.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  • Both become stubborn.<\/li>\n
  • Both do not have the patience to listen to each other.<\/li>\n
  • Both lack empathy.<\/li>\n
  • Both concentrate on the negative aspects of each other.<\/li>\n
  • Both want to prove the other is wrong.<\/li>\n
  • Both want to come out as the winner as if you were contesting against each other.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Where does these negative qualities lead your relationship?<\/p>\n

    It leads to consistent ego clashes in your marriage. It wrecks your happiness. You finally opt for divorce.<\/a><\/p>\n

    Sad, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

    Your marriage meets its inevitable end because both were egoistic and inconsiderate.<\/p>\n

    Are you wondering about the reasons for ego clashes in your marriage?<\/h2>\n

    Here goes!<\/strong><\/p>\n

    1. You are stubborn<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    You always want things done your way.<\/p>\n

    When your spouse has different views about any topic, you never relent.<\/a><\/p>\n

    You argue about everything your spouse says.<\/p>\n

    You never listen to his\\her viewpoint.<\/p>\n

    You do not have patience.<\/p>\n

    You are not flexible.<\/p>\n

    You avoid discussing family issues as you feel you know the best.<\/p>\n

    2. You have superiority complex<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    You think you are better than your spouse in many ways.<\/p>\n

    You also feel that your upbringing is superior to him\\her.<\/p>\n

    You feel you are more intelligent than your spouse.<\/p>\n

    If you earn more than what your spouse does, your arrogant attitude towards him\\her makes ego clashes in your marriage a permanent feature.<\/p>\n

    If you are better looking than your spouse, you feel he\\she is no match to you in looks.<\/p>\n

    You want to show yourself better than your spouse so that you have more say in family matters.<\/p>\n

    3. You are proud<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    It is very important that you have pride about yourself. Without pride, you feel inferior and less about you. Pride is the most vital ingredient you need\u00a0 in your life.<\/p>\n

    But to think that you are the best is arrogance. Such arrogance makes your married life a war of persistent ego clashes.<\/p>\n

    Yes!<\/p>\n

    When the pride you have in yourself exceeds its limit, it easily leads to ego clashes in your marriage.<\/p>\n

    When you are arrogant, you feel that you have all the positive qualities while your spouse has all the negative points.<\/p>\n

    You keep pointing to your spouse how much better you are than him\\her. And naturally your spouse is enraged and furious at your conceit.<\/p>\n

    4. You are selfish<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Selfishness has no place in marriage.<\/p>\n

    When you are selfish, you want everything for yourself. You are unwilling to share the financial commitments of the family.<\/p>\n

    You buy good things only for yourself. You never gift your spouse.<\/p>\n

    You are so concentrated on your comfort that you want your spouse to make all the adjustments.<\/p>\n

    You think everything from your angle. You have the uncanny trick of making your spouse the culprit behind all the family problems you are facing.<\/p>\n

    5. You never let go<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    You never want to end your fights.<\/p>\n

    You prolong it for days by digging up old fights which happened a long time ago.<\/p>\n

    You never let arguments remain as arguments.<\/p>\n

    You become so abusive that your arguments become mammoth fights between you.<\/p>\n

    And its impact often leads your marriage to the divorce court.<\/p>\n

    6. You assume inner meaning in innocuous comments<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Each word uttered by your spouse is analyzed with hostility by you.<\/p>\n

    You misconstrue everything your spouse says.<\/p>\n

    You mind read your spouse, the wrong way.<\/p>\n

    You feel your spouse is up to destroy your happiness.<\/p>\n

    7. You are insulting and degrading<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Your egoistic words hurt the ego of your spouse.<\/p>\n

    You make fun of his\\her appearance.<\/p>\n

    You degrade his\\her way of doing things.<\/p>\n

    You make demeaning comments about your spouse before your friends\\relatives.<\/p>\n

    Naturally your spouse finds it intolerable when you degrade him\\her in many ways.<\/p>\n

    CONCLUSION<\/h4>\n

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    “The one who loves the least, controls the relationship.”\u00a0 ~ Robert Anthony<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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    When there are persistent ego clashes in your marriage, there is no happiness worth the name in your relationship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

    If you want your relationship to survive, you must bid goodbye to your ego.<\/p>\n

    Otherwise your ego might destroy your marriage to nothingness.<\/p>\n

    You never want it to happen to your marriage, do you?<\/p>\n

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