Many a time, you feel that you are unable to break the emotional barrier of your husband, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

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Your husband is that closed about his true feelings and emotions. He never really opens out with you, that you feel you never really know him.<\/p>\n

You long that your husband would share his innermost feelings with you, don’t you?<\/p>\n

It is your ardent wish that your husband should behave more frankly with you.<\/p>\n

You feel so, because you are not secretive about your feelings with your husband. You always open out your innermost feelings and emotions with him.<\/p>\n

You wish your husband would do the same, don’t you?<\/p>\n

But invariably, your husband is emotionally distant and secretive towards you.<\/p>\n

You are unable to understand certain behaviors of your husband, because he is often deadpan and emotionless.<\/p>\n

Your husband never confides the reasons behind his mood swings. This makes you feel that your husband does not love you enough.<\/p>\n

Do not worry.<\/p>\n

Your husband does love you.<\/p>\n

Now, you are wondering why your husband remains enigmatic and secretive with you, aren’t you?<\/p>\n

You must realize, that your husband is totally different from you, in his attitude and mindset.<\/p>\n

Your husband wants to show himself as a strong person to you. But inwardly, he is vulnerable and defenseless, as he does not have your capacity to cope up with family and relationship problems.<\/p>\n

When you attack his male ego, by charging him as an irresponsible and negligent family man, he builds an emotional barrier around him.<\/p>\n

Do you know that the emotional barrier of your husband is his protective armor?<\/a><\/p>\n

It safe guards all his emotional secrets.<\/p>\n

You never hide your feelings from your husband. But, your husband never shows his true emotions to you. It is this contradictory behavior of both, that adds spice to your relationship.<\/p>\n

But, I am sure you would not agree to me. You want your husband to be open and frank with you.<\/p>\n

You long to penetrate the emotional barrier of your husband, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Is it a very difficult thing to do?<\/p>\n

It is not, provided you know tricks to break the emotional barrier of your husband.<\/h2>\n

1. Never ever, nag him<\/strong><\/h3>\n

What do you do when your husband makes a mistake?<\/p>\n

You nag him threadbare so much so, that your poor husband feels completely put off by your aggressive behavior.<\/p>\n

Your nagging breaks the mental peace of your husband to pieces. Your attitude makes him feel, that he is not good enough for the family.<\/p>\n

Here is how you completely demolish your husband, by literally bombarding him with highly provactive questions.<\/p>\n

“Why did you commit the mistake?”<\/p>\n

“Why weren\u2019t you careful?”<\/p>\n

“I saw it coming.”<\/p>\n

These sort of accusations unnerve your husband. The male ego of your husband is shattered and crushed, by your never-ending nagging about his mistakes.<\/p>\n

Your husband hates being nagged about his mistakes. Because, it makes him feel that he is not good enough for the family. So, your husband maintains a safe distance from you.<\/p>\n

If you really want your husband to share his feelings with you, you must forgo your nagging.<\/p>\n

Instead of accusing your husband, become supportive and understanding towards the mistakes he unknowingly makes.<\/p>\n

“Do not worry. Everyone makes mistakes. Forget it. We can make it out.”<\/p>\n

Can you see the words you are using?<\/p>\n

The words “do not <\/strong>worry”<\/strong> conveys the message that you have forgotten his mistakes.<\/a><\/p>\n

When you use the word we, <\/strong>it instantly conveys the message that you are not isolating your husband.<\/a><\/p>\n

When you do not make your husband feel like a culprit, he easily forgoes the emotional barrier that he has built around him.<\/p>\n

2. Love your husband unconditionally<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your husband might not be as successful as you.<\/p>\n

He might not have the ability you have.<\/p>\n

Your husband might be absent-minded, and forgetful in family duties.<\/p>\n

In spite of all his drawbacks, love him unconditionally.<\/p>\n

Your husband likes it when you love him, without a price tag.<\/a><\/p>\n

Easiest way to break the emotional barrier of your husband, is to accept him with all his faults.<\/p>\n

3. Never dig up the unhappy past of your husband\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The past of your husband might not be worth discussing. He might have had an abusive childhood.<\/p>\n

He might have failed multiple times in his life.<\/p>\n

Your husband might have had love affairs, before marrying you.<\/p>\n

Your husband might want to forget his unhappy past. He might hate discussing it with you, as it brings back bitter memories to him.<\/p>\n

This is the reason your husband goes on the defensive, when you dig up his past.<\/p>\n

Never ever do it.<\/p>\n

The past of your husband should never matter to you.<\/p>\n

When you understandingly desist from talking about the unhappy past of your husband, he feels comfortable with you.<\/p>\n

Your understanding nature, will definitely make your husband take off his shroud of secrecy, to share his true feelings with you.<\/p>\n

4. Be encouraging<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your encouragement means a lot to your husband. It makes him feel that you value his role in the family.<\/p>\n

But, often you compare your husband with your more successful colleagues\\relatives\\friends.<\/p>\n

When you degrade the capacity of your husband, he becomes tensed. It is because you have deflated his male ego.<\/p>\n

You will never break the emotional barrier of your husband, if you do so.<\/p>\n

Be encouraging and supportive.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you encourage even the smallest success of your husband, he begins to trust you.<\/p>\n

When your husband starts to trust you, he will never hide anything from you.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

Trust is an open sesame, to break the emotional barrier of your husband.<\/p>\n

5. Give your husband emotional support<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You, as a woman openly let off your steam by talking about your problems. But, your husband never confides about his\u00a0 feelings.<\/p>\n

Your husband always keeps his feelings, bottled up within himself. Your husband does not openly display his emotions, as he does not know how you will react towards it.<\/p>\n

When your husband is depressed, be supportive.<\/p>\n

When your husband is tensed, never start an argument.<\/p>\n

When your husband is angry, refrain from back answering.<\/p>\n

CONCLUSION<\/h4>\n

“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” – Maya Angelou<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

When you do these things, your husband feels he has your full emotional support. Something he needs drastically.<\/p>\n

The emotional barrier of your husband is not unbreakable.<\/p>\n

Win the trust of your husband. Love him, without attaching any strings to it.<\/p>\n

Empathize with your husband.<\/p>\n

You can now easily enter break the emotional barrier your husband has built around himself.<\/p>\n

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