{"id":6033,"date":"2018-02-26T05:14:14","date_gmt":"2018-02-26T10:14:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6033"},"modified":"2018-02-26T05:14:14","modified_gmt":"2018-02-26T10:14:14","slug":"ways-avoid-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/ways-avoid-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 easy ways to avoid divorce to save your marriage from falling apart"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most of you want to avoid divorce at any cost.<\/p>\n

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You definitely want to make your marriage work. But incompatibility with your spouse makes you hurry towards annulling your marriage.<\/p>\n

Sad, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

This is the most common scenario of modern marriages.<\/p>\n

\u2018Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and divorce a matter of course. – Helen Rowland<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why do you opt for divorce?<\/p>\n

What happened to the love you had for each other?<\/p>\n

Does longevity of marriage no longer exist?<\/p>\n

Why is there only rare cases of successful marriages?<\/p>\n

Why is divorce so prevalent today?<\/p>\n

Answer to all these questions is very simple.<\/p>\n

You feel divorce is the easiest way out of a relationship you dislike.<\/a><\/p>\n

Why do you dislike living with your spouse?<\/p>\n

You are at loggerheads with your spouse for very petty reasons. The words adjustment, tolerance, and compatibility becomes obsolete in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You take for granted that your marriage will work by itself. So, you never make any efforts to nurture your relationship. When you do not nurture your relationship, it easily withers to failure.<\/p>\n

This is the reason you have no qualms about divorcing your spouse. It is sad that even older couples resort to divorce making their years of togetherness meaningless.<\/p>\n

Do you think divorce can end all your problems?<\/p>\n

It does not.<\/p>\n

Divorce leaves your children emotionally shattered. Your financial position is in shambles. You feel depressed that your marriage should end in failure.<\/p>\n

Can you avoid divorce? You can, if you make efforts to rebuild your relationship<\/strong><\/h2>\n

1. Avoid divorce by accepting the individuality of your spouse<\/strong><\/h2>\n

After marriage, you expect your spouse to change according to your liking.<\/p>\n

This is when the first seed of dissent is sowed in your relationship. Unless you accept the individuality of your spouse, your marriage cannot survive.<\/p>\n

Realize that your spouse is an individual with his\\her own unique wishes and desires.<\/a><\/p>\n

Marriage in no way changes it. Too much intrusion into the personal zone of your spouse makes him\\her resentful. So, never do that.<\/p>\n