{"id":6090,"date":"2018-09-10T19:14:41","date_gmt":"2018-09-11T00:14:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6090"},"modified":"2018-09-10T19:16:32","modified_gmt":"2018-09-11T00:16:32","slug":"a-wife-destroys-the-happiness-of-her-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/a-wife-destroys-the-happiness-of-her-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 ways a wife destroys the happiness of her husband"},"content":{"rendered":"
Is it possible a wife destroys the happiness of her husband?<\/p>\n
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You can. But you do not do it deliberately.<\/p>\n
You love your husband ardently. But you make many mistakes that converts your husband into a nervous wreck. Though your husband is stronger than you physically, he is very weak and vulnerable mentally.<\/p>\n
“Vinaya tortures me day in day out demanding that I change the company I now work for” Elango told me with dejection written all over his face. Vinaya was my friend’s daughter.<\/p>\n
“Why does Vinaya want you to change your company?” I asked him confusedly. I knew he was very successful in his work.<\/p>\n
“Well, she feels my earnings is not in accordance to my intelligence. But, I feel it is I who has to decide where to work” Elango sounded rightfully indignant.<\/p>\n
“She is now making it into a big issue and fights with me daily. She says I do not have the capacity to earn enough for the family. I am so angry with her that I don’t feel like talking with her” Elango sighed with suppressed frustration.<\/p>\n
I agreed with what the young man told me. Working in a place he liked was his prerogative. Vinaya was giving her husband emotional torture by being money minded and interfering.<\/p>\n
Yes!<\/p>\n
Your husband needs your emotional support more than anything else. He also likes his space. When he does not get it from you, he crumbles within himself in helpless anger.<\/p>\n
You are very concentrated on the financial security of your family. You always fret about the future of your children. You also want the best for them.<\/p>\n
You want a good standard of living. So, you constantly crib with your husband about money. This attitude of yours unnerves your husband as he feels he is not earning enough to satisfy your needs.<\/p>\n
When you constantly compare your lifestyle with your neighbors\\friends\\colleagues and demand what they have, your poor husband does not know what to do.<\/p>\n
Don’t commit this silly relationship blunder.<\/p>\n
Your life is your own. Never compare your married life with others and become unsatisfied with what you have.<\/p>\n