{"id":6090,"date":"2018-09-10T19:14:41","date_gmt":"2018-09-11T00:14:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6090"},"modified":"2018-09-10T19:16:32","modified_gmt":"2018-09-11T00:16:32","slug":"a-wife-destroys-the-happiness-of-her-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/a-wife-destroys-the-happiness-of-her-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 ways a wife destroys the happiness of her husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

Is it possible a wife destroys the happiness of her husband?<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You can. But you do not do it deliberately.<\/p>\n

You love your husband ardently. But you make many mistakes that converts your husband into a nervous wreck. Though your husband is stronger than you physically, he is very weak and vulnerable mentally.<\/p>\n

“Vinaya tortures me day in day out demanding that I change the company I now work for” Elango told me with dejection written all over his face. Vinaya was my friend’s daughter.<\/p>\n

“Why does Vinaya want you to change your company?” I asked him confusedly. I knew he was very successful in his work.<\/p>\n

“Well, she feels my earnings is not in accordance to my intelligence. But, I feel it is I who has to decide where to work” Elango sounded rightfully indignant.<\/p>\n

“She is now making it into a big issue and fights with me daily. She says I do not have the capacity to earn enough for the family. I am so angry with her that I don’t feel like talking with her” Elango sighed with suppressed frustration.<\/p>\n

I agreed with what the young man told me. Working in a place he liked was his prerogative. Vinaya was giving her husband emotional torture by being money minded and interfering.<\/p>\n

Yes!<\/p>\n

Your husband needs your emotional support more than anything else. He also likes his space. When he does not get it from you, he crumbles within himself in helpless anger.<\/p>\n

A wife destroys the happiness of her husband by doing many things which he is unable to cope up.<\/h2>\n

1. By demanding more money<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You are very concentrated on the financial security of your family. You always fret about the future of your children. You also want the best for them.<\/p>\n

You want a good standard of living. So, you constantly crib with your husband about money. This attitude of yours unnerves your husband as he feels he is not earning enough to satisfy your needs.<\/p>\n

When you constantly compare your lifestyle with your neighbors\\friends\\colleagues and demand what they have, your poor husband does not know what to do.<\/p>\n

Don’t commit this silly relationship blunder.<\/p>\n

Your life is your own. Never compare your married life with others and become unsatisfied with what you have.<\/p>\n

Being money minded is one of the top ways a wife destroys the happiness of her husband.<\/a><\/p>\n

2. By withholding sex<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you are angry with your husband, you refuse sex with him. It is very normal to feel angry with your husband as you are emotional by nature.<\/p>\n

But it is abnormal when you use sex as a weapon to command your husband to do things your way. As you know, your husband is a physical animal. He cannot do without sex<\/p>\n

When he comes to you with sexual interest, you take it as an opportunity to fulfill your wishes. Physical desire is the weakest aspect of your husband. You very well know about it. So, you use sex as your trump card and compel him to do things which he does not approve of.<\/p>\n

Do you know inwardly he curses you?<\/p>\n

3. By comparing him with others<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You want your husband to be successful. A very normal wifely feeling.<\/p>\n

But you go about it an absolutely hurting way.<\/p>\n

\u2018How is it, your friend got his promotion while you could not?\u2019<\/p>\n

\u2018Do you know my cousin is your age, but he earns three times more than you do?\u2019<\/p>\n

\u2018Why can\u2019t you be as smart as my colleague? You can be more successful if you are like him.\u2019<\/p>\n

Words that prick the male ego of your husband. He hates it when you compare him with others. He wants you to appreciate his ability. It will make him feel worthy, you know.<\/p>\n

But often you do not. Your intention is not to hurt your husband but to prod him to do better. Your husband does not like the way you do it. When you compare him in a lesser light to others, he goes into his shell of angry moodiness. He refuses to interact with you.<\/p>\n

4. By constantly advising him<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You know very well that your husband does not have your multi-tasking talent. He also does not have your farsightedness as far as the family is concerned.<\/p>\n

So you turn preachy. A quality your husband hates in you.<\/p>\n

You advise him about money matters.<\/p>\n

You advise him about his responsibility.<\/p>\n

You advise him about the ways to become successful.<\/p>\n

You literally nag the poor man that he feels like a school boy.<\/p>\n

Nagging is a worst way a wife destroys the happiness of her husband.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. By making him secondary<\/strong><\/h3>\n

After the birth of your children, you become a full-fledged mother. In fact, your husband likes it when you are dedicated mother, as he does not have the capacity to look after the children.<\/p>\n

But he feels lonely when you ignore him in your concentration of playing the role of a mother.<\/p>\n

You are also a very caring daughter. You are very affectionate towards your parents and siblings.<\/p>\n

You play this dual role of a mother and daughter to perfection that you forget to cater to the emotional needs of your husband.<\/p>\n

Do you know your husband wants to be your top priority?<\/p>\n

When you refuse to make him so, he is not at all happy with his married life. In fact, your husband feels lost and alone.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/h3>\n

“Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.”-\u00a0 Franz Schubert<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

When you constantly commit these relationship blunders, you unknowingly send the message that he is not that important to you. Never crush the male ego of your husband by being ignorant of his male needs, Because he drastically needs it, to feel that you value him.<\/p>\n

It is so easy to make your marriage slip through your hands by being indifferent to your husband. You have to be an empathetic wife to perfectly understand what your husband exactly expects from you. Be that to become his queen!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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