Understand that it takes many years before your marriage settles down to normalcy.<\/p>\n

3. Spacing is the essence of a good relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your spouse is an individual. He\\she needs his\\her own privacy. Do not even dream of entering into the personal zone of your spouse. This creates intense anger and resentment in his\\her mind.<\/p>\n

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• Allow your spouse do things as he\\she wants to.<\/li>\n
• Do not breathe down the neck of your spouse 24\\7.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  Personal spacing is very important for your relationship to survive.<\/p>\n

  Ask any successful couples the reason behind their happiness. Their answer is invariably- spacing.<\/p>\n

  Yes, spacing forgoes many problems in married life.<\/p>\n

  4. Never, extend your arguments<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Arguments and fights are common among couples. But digging up old fights is a big no. It instantly conveys the message that you had been harboring resentment about your spouse so far. This is one of the biggest reason for marriage problems.<\/p>\n

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  • You extend fights for days.<\/li>\n
  • You want to emerge the winner.<\/li>\n
  • You want to prove that your spouse is in the wrong.<\/li>\n
  • You drag the family of your spouse into your fight.<\/li>\n
  • You do not talk for days.<\/li>\n
  • Your mind relives the bitter words spoken by your spouse repeatedly.<\/li>\n
  • You make negative comments about his\\her appearance- a very sensitive topic.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Forget your arguments immediately. Do not drag it on and on until both feel hostile towards each other.<\/p>\n

    5. Never, allow third-party intrusion<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Do you run to your parents with a complaint list about your spouse?<\/p>\n

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    • Utter blunder on your part.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Do your parents come to your aid by arguing with your spouse on your behalf?<\/p>\n

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      • Utter blunder on their part.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        You do not need another person to advice you about your relationship. Both are mature enough to know the ways to make your marriage happy and stable. Third party intrusion turns your relationship ugly.<\/p>\n

        SUM UP OF THE SIMPLE SOLUTIONS TO YOUR MARRIAGE PROBLEMS<\/strong><\/h3>\n

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        • Acknowledge that your spouse is an individual and so has his\\her own unique whims and fancies.<\/li>\n
        • Overlook irritating habits of your spouse. It is not a big issue.<\/li>\n
        • Have beautiful spacing between you.<\/li>\n
        • Be supportive.<\/li>\n
        • Never be too demanding about your rights – a sure backfire.<\/li>\n
        • Do not dig up old fights to add strength to your new fights.<\/li>\n
        • Let bygones be bygones.<\/li>\n
        • Respect your spouse for what he\\she is.<\/li>\n
        • Do not snoop on your spouse.<\/li>\n
        • Do not bring in your children into your arguments.<\/li>\n
        • Accept the hardcore fact that the frenzied love of your dating days will never exist after your marriage.<\/li>\n
        • Never ask for a third party mediator to solve your marriage problems. [ It makes your problems even worse]<\/li>\n
        • Be practical when there is a need.<\/li>\n
        • Be very loving and understanding, as your spouse needs it.<\/li>\n
        • Never ever, outgrow your spouse.<\/li>\n
        • Do not fleece your spouse to the last penny.<\/li>\n
        • Do not treat your spouse high handedly.<\/li>\n
        • Do not be dominating and controlling.<\/li>\n
        • Do not try to take control of the hard-earned money of your spouse. It inevitably snowballs into a relationship killer.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          CONCLUSION<\/h4>\n

          “Work on your relationships… Relationships need renewal or they die.” – Bo Sanchez\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

          Demands and more demands makes your marriage stressed and tensed. Impractical and unrealistic expectations makes your married life highly disappointing.<\/p>\n

          Understand that marriage problems are part and parcel of any relationship. Realize that you are not enemies to battle for supremacy day in and day out. Know that you are in the same team. This is the reason the success of your marriage depends on both.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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