In fact, most couples play blaming game against each other persistently.<\/p>\n

You are so intent on blaming your spouse, that you never realize you are indirectly pushing your marriage towards failure.<\/p>\n

“It was you who made this financial blunder. How are you going to solve it? How are you going to allocate money for the repayment? I would have nothing to do with it” the shrill voice of my cousin jarred my ears as I was about to enter her house.<\/p>\n

She was having a bitter argument with her husband, regarding a financial mess her family was presently facing.<\/p>\n

“How can you blame me? You were very adamant on buying that costly car. I told you it was beyond our means and that the installments would cut into our budget. But you insisted that you can manage it. Now, you are putting the total blame on me” her husband retorted back angrily.<\/p>\n

I could see that they were having a disagreement about their mutual decision to buy a costly car. I knew that their income did not warrant the financial risk they took, when they bought a high-end car. But, they felt that their social status would go up if they owned such a luxurious car.<\/p>\n

Nothing wrong in that.<\/p>\n

But the trouble started, when they could not manage the monthly installments.<\/p>\n

It is quite natural for any couples to disagree on decisions they make, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

But what amazed me was, how both were isolating each other from the mutual financial mistake they had made. They pointed blaming and accusing fingers at each other, instead of trying to solve their problem. They were playing the blaming game to the hilt.<\/p>\n

You have to stop the blame game in relationship if you want your marriage to survive.<\/p>\n

Never try to isolate yourself from the mutual mistakes both make. Do not single out your spouse, to accuse him\\her for any problems you face in your family.<\/p>\n

It is always better to put your heads together, to solve your family issues.<\/p>\n