{"id":6195,"date":"2018-10-01T21:23:37","date_gmt":"2018-10-02T02:23:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6195"},"modified":"2018-10-01T21:23:37","modified_gmt":"2018-10-02T02:23:37","slug":"marriage-counselling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/marriage-counselling\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage counselling – Does it really save your relationship from failure?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Do you know the tricks to solve your relationship problems depends on you, and not in marriage counselling ?<\/p>\n
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It is sad that in modern marriages, couples seek marriage counselling for their marital problems. It is as though they do not trust themselves to deal with their relationship issues.<\/p>\n
Are you one such couple who rush to a marriage counsellor when there is a relationship issue between you and your spouse?<\/p>\n
You are absolutely sure that a marriage counselor will literally make your relationship problems disappear like a magic, don’t you?<\/p>\n
This is the reason you rush to a marriage counselor to mend your marriage.<\/p>\n
You are wrong.<\/p>\n
A marriage counselor does not live your married life. It is you and your spouse who live through it.<\/p>\n
He gives you theoretical relationship advice. But the input of making your marriage stable must come only from you.<\/p>\n
You often allow your relationship problems to escalate beyond the danger level. This makes everything go wrong in your marriage. Instead of solving your problems between yourself, you rush to a marriage counselor expecting a miracle to save your marriage.<\/p>\n
You spend thousands of dollars on marriage counselling.<\/p>\n
You never realize it is a complete waste of money.<\/p>\n
Why do you want to spend your hard-earned money on a problem which can be solved only by you?<\/p>\n
\u201cYou don\u2019t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.\u201d -Richard Needham<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n It is sad to see marriage counseling becoming a fad among couples of the modern society. Marriage counselors were quite unheard of many years ago. It was rare to see yester year couples seeking marital advice from another person to solve their relationship problems.<\/p>\n Why has the scenario completely changed today?<\/p>\n Why do you see a spurt of marriage counselors in recent times?<\/p>\n It is because the concept of marriage has undergone a sea of changes over the years.<\/a><\/p>\n Women have become financially independent. They demand equal rights. The money both earn is astounding. Your lifestyle is amazing. The standard of living you enjoy was not even dreamed by us.<\/p>\n But, with the elevation of your status symbol, other unwanted factors have crept into your relationship.<\/p>\n Intolerance, incompatibility, indifference, ego clashes, and bitter arguments have become the common scenario of your married life.<\/p>\n You want your spouse to do things, as you want to.<\/p>\n Are you and your spouse a Xerox copy of each other that you want a perfect replica of yourself in him\\her?<\/p>\n Can you point out one single couple in the whole world who have the same thoughts, the same desires, and the same tastes?<\/p>\n You cannot.<\/p>\n Why is it so?<\/p>\n Tastes and desires always differ from person to person. There is nothing wrong in it. Sadly, the minor differences in your relationship makes you feel you have married a wrong person.<\/p>\n You do not spend useful and sensible time to sort out your differences with your spouse.<\/p>\n Instead, you rush to an expert to retrieve your marriage from failure.<\/p>\n These are just a few issues you face in your married life.<\/p>\n Look keenly at the list.<\/p>\nWhat are your common relationship problems?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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