{"id":6207,"date":"2018-10-19T10:50:57","date_gmt":"2018-10-19T15:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6207"},"modified":"2018-10-19T10:54:44","modified_gmt":"2018-10-19T15:54:44","slug":"no-perfect-marriage-exists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/no-perfect-marriage-exists\/","title":{"rendered":"Does a perfect marriage exist in this whole world?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you know that there is no perfect marriage even if you search the whole world?<\/p>\n

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Every marriage is imperfect in its own way. There are no perfect couples either.<\/p>\n

It is quite a natural thing.<\/p>\n

How can two people from diversified family background have perfect sync of thoughts just because they are married?<\/p>\n

It never happens. Might be in your dream. But never in reality.<\/p>\n

\u2018I think that there is always a part of utopia in any romantic relationship.\u2019- Pedro Almodovar<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Do you want to know the real reason why no perfect marriage exists?<\/h2>\n

It is because of the drastic changes your relationship undergoes after your marriage.<\/p>\n

In the initial glow of love, you dream that your married life would always be perfect and heavenly. Almost all couples have such idealistic dreams when they marry. But mostly they are disappointed.<\/p>\n

They soon find out that their’s is not a perfect marriage as they idealistically imagined it to be. They also bitterly realize that a perfect spouse also doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

Perfect marriage was after all your pipe dream, wasn’t it?<\/p>\n

You had dreamy expectations about your marriage. But you feel utterly disappointed when your dreams of a perfect marriage crashes to the ground.<\/p>\n

You find out with regret that your married life is a different genre from your love days. It is practical and realistic to the core.<\/p>\n

Your spouse is not the super human being you imagined him\\her to be. He\\she is very real, very emotional, and very human.<\/p>\n

He\\she is also prone to mistakes. Your married life is not as problem free as you imagined. In fact, it is full of emotional and financial problems.<\/p>\n

You fight and argue with your spouse\u00a0– a thing you never dreamed will happen in your relationship.<\/p>\n

You finally realize that no perfect marriage exists in this vast world.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

All married couples throughout the world face relationship problems. They too feel their marriage is not perfect.<\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

There is no perfect marriage. There are no perfect couples. You are not perfect. Your spouse is not perfect. This is the harsh reality you have to face.<\/p>\n

Are you everything your spouse expected you to be?<\/a><\/p>\n

You are not.<\/p>\n

You have your share of imperfections, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Then, how can you expect your spouse to be your dream husband\\wife?<\/p>\n

This is the topmost mistake your make. When you set too high a standard for your spouse, he\\she finds it impossible to fulfill it.<\/p>\n

Adjusting and tolerating the imperfections of your spouse decides the happiness quotient of your marriage. Overlooking his\\her imperfections is the only way to a happy married life.<\/p>\n

You can at best only expect a compatible spouse who makes perfect adjustments to your imperfections.<\/p>\n

Do you want to see why there is no such thing as a perfect marriage?<\/h3>\n

To find out the real reason, you have to compare your love days and your married days.<\/p>\n

Your Utopian love days.<\/strong><\/h3>\n