{"id":6211,"date":"2018-08-24T22:29:49","date_gmt":"2018-08-25T03:29:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6211"},"modified":"2018-08-24T22:29:49","modified_gmt":"2018-08-25T03:29:49","slug":"reasons-wife-emotionally-pulls-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/reasons-wife-emotionally-pulls-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 6 real reasons why your wife emotionally pulls away from you"},"content":{"rendered":"
Do you know your wife emotionally pulls away from you, only because of your insensitive attitude towards her?<\/p>\n
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Your wife can love you like no else can do. But, she can also withdraw away from you as no else can do.<\/p>\n
Yes.<\/p>\n
Your wife is that sensitive towards you. But man like, you never know it. You do many things that hurt your wife, emotionally, sentimentally and psychologically.<\/p>\n
You become the world of your wife after marriage. She loves you with an intensity you cannot imagine. But, mostly your wife is disappointed when you do not return her love, as she wants you to. You make her feel utterly disenchanted when you do not understand her emotional needs.<\/p>\n
“I am fed up with my husband. He behaves as though I am the only accountable for any family issues that arise,”Lalitha, a young girl I knew complained.<\/p>\n
“He never appreciates anything I do. But he is first to criticize me for any mistakes I unknowingly make” she further elaborated.<\/p>\n
” My husband also never spends time with me. All he is interested in is his mobile phones and video games. Nowadays I am losing my patience with him”tears of self-pity welled in Lalitha’s eyes.<\/p>\n
Lalitha is one among the many women who feel that they are used and taken for granted in their\u00a0 married life.<\/p>\n
It is true that you never understand the emotional needs of your wife.<\/p>\n
Do you know you are too practical for her liking?<\/a><\/p>\n You make the world of your wife crumble when you coolly overlook her in many ways.<\/p>\n Your wife emotionally pulls away from you, as you never think of changing your attitude towards her. When you persist in making the life of your wife torturous, she slowly but surely hardens her approach towards you as she has had enough.<\/p>\n You would be surprised if you know.<\/p>\n Here are her valid reasons.<\/p>\n You forget that your wife is a highly intelligent woman with a mind of her own. She knows what she wants. And she likes to do things her way without your interference.<\/p>\n But, you are keen on questioning her. You act as though she knows nothing. And your questions are almost always too interfering into her personal zone. A thing she hates in you.<\/p>\n ” Why did you spend so much money on this dress? It is not worth the cost.”<\/p>\n “Why didn\u2019t you tell me before doing it? I could have made better suggestions.”<\/p>\n Can you see how much you use the word why?<\/p>\n And your wife hates the word why, because it questions her intelligence.<\/p>\n You make her feel tongue-tied when you bombard her with questions. Initially she fears you. Gradually she resents you. Finally, your wife emotionally pulls away from you as your questions makes her resent you.<\/p>\n Your wife wants to talk to you about everything. You are the first person she thinks of when she is emotionally upset. She wants to share her innermost feelings with you. But you are not interested in what your wife has to say.<\/p>\n You have many reasons to defend your habit of not listening to your wife.<\/p>\n You feel your wife is too gossipy. You feel she talks nonsense. You feel she is too cribbing. You feel she talks in detail about everything.<\/p>\n Not once do you feel that your wife is sharing her emotions with you. When you do not listen to her, she is terribly upset. She now resists talking to you, as she knows you would not listen.<\/p>\nAre you wondering why your wife emotionally pulls away from you?<\/h2>\n
1. You are too questioning<\/strong><\/h3>\n
2. You never listen<\/strong><\/h3>\n