{"id":6250,"date":"2018-08-20T20:52:18","date_gmt":"2018-08-21T01:52:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6250"},"modified":"2018-08-20T20:52:18","modified_gmt":"2018-08-21T01:52:18","slug":"relationship-problems-after-a-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/relationship-problems-after-a-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship problems after a baby – A wife\u2019s viewpoint"},"content":{"rendered":"
You are surprised when you face many relationship problems after a baby, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
It is indeed surprising that your bundle of delight causes many unexpected changes in your relationship with your husband.<\/p>\n
You are happy when your baby becomes the cementing force of your marriage. You feel emotionally secure that you have now branched out as a family. You are proud that you are now a mother. Both feel elated when your baby tightens your emotional bond with more love.<\/p>\n
All good things, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n
But, you cannot deny that you have relationship problems after a baby.<\/a><\/p>\n Your husband feels that you begin to neglect him after your baby. Your changed uncaring behavior towards him leaves him baffled and confused.<\/p>\n \u201cI love my husband intensely. I don\u2019t know why he feels I no longer care for him\u201d you too feel confused about why your husband should feel neglected by you.<\/p>\n Your love for your husband remains the same. But there is a visible difference in the way you interact with him.<\/p>\n Can you see how you have changed?<\/p>\n You are too concentrated on your motherly duties that you forget your wifely duties. Your husband becomes secondary, while your baby becomes your primary concern.<\/p>\n Your whole world now revolves around your baby. There is so much you have to do for your baby.<\/p>\n You lose count of the times you change diapers and feed your baby.\u00a0 You are tensed that you no longer have rest. Your added responsibilities as a new mother makes you fatigued and tired.<\/p>\n It is true that looking after your baby literally drains your energy. Consequently, you lose interest in looking after the needs of your husband. Being a loving mother makes you forget your duties as a good wife.<\/p>\n Your sleepless nights makes you physically famished. Your body and mind is dead tired and listless. All you want in life is rest and some breather when your baby is sleeping.<\/p>\n But in the bargain, your husband feels disappointed when you no longer care for him as you used to do. Now a new life of looking after himself stares coldly at him.<\/p>\n Money is also one of the topmost reason for relationship problems after a baby. You want to stay back at home to look after your baby. But you cannot afford to do so as your need for money grows.<\/p>\n When you are forced to work to meet the additional need for money, you argue with your husband often.<\/p>\n But this is something you should never do.<\/p>\n Can you see how your relationship with your husband undergoes drastic changes after your baby?<\/p>\n The things you lose interest in are the things your husband drastically needs. It makes him feel lost and unattended when you do not cater to his manly desires.<\/p>\n Your husband is peevish that you do not pay attention to him. He longs for normal sexual life with you. When you consistently deny him sex citing your tiredness, he feels sexually deprived. As a man, your husband will never outgrow his hunger for physical pleasure.<\/p>\n It is true that looking after your baby is quite tiring and draining.<\/p>\n But you cannot let things drift away in your marriage after a baby.<\/p>\n\n
Do you know why your husband becomes peevish with the relationship problems after a baby?<\/h2>\n
\n