When your spouse intrudes and interferes in all your money dealings, you feel annoyed and irritated.<\/p>\n

It is after all your money, isn’t it?<\/p>\n

You feel you have all the right in the world to be the decisive authority of your income.<\/p>\n

You also want to have sumptuous balance in your bank account to make you feel comfortable and well endowed.<\/p>\n

When your spouse demands that you pool in all the money you earn for  family commitments, you are angry and frustrated.<\/p>\n

\u2018I work hard and earn my income. I give my share towards the financial commitments of my family.  But to ask for all my money is rather unfair. Instead of explaining my stand which my spouse never understands, I find it easy to hide my income from him\\her\u2019.<\/p>\n

This is the common financial scenario of the modern money minded couples.<\/p>\n

What happens when your spouse comes to know about your debts and other financial dealings which happened behind his\\her back?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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• It makes your relationship tense and frayed.<\/li>\n
• You fight with your spouse as though you were enemies.<\/li>\n
• You accuse each other of cheating.<\/li>\n
• Your mudslinging includes accusations that your spouse is the reason behind the financial rut your family has fallen into.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  You are married and the financial commitments of the family are mutual. Both should discuss about the ways to handle your income. You should divide your financial commitments equally and keep the remaining money for your personal needs.<\/p>\n

  Unless you have personal money you feel deprived and lost. When you do not have a penny you can call your own, it makes you very tensed and annoyed in your relationship.<\/p>\n

  You have your own private wishes, don’t you?<\/p>\n

  You should have that much of liberty to handle your money as you want to.<\/p>\n

  Money should give your family financial security.<\/p>\n

  It should not become a cheating game.<\/p>\n

  There should be no leeching and fleecing of the personal money by both. There should be transparency and frankness. There should be discussion and mutual decision. Money should make your family life stable and secure. Not a war zone.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  Do you know you often cheat your spouse in money matters?   Do you feel having extra marital affairs is the only way you cheat your spouse? No! Cheating in marriage relationship has a much broader angle to it! It means a lot of things. Do you know you cheat your spouse in many ways? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[48,161,199,284],"yoast_head":"\n