What makes these friends ruin your marriage?<\/a><\/p>\nThese so-called friends might not enjoy a good marriage. So, they are jealous of the good relationship you enjoy with your spouse. And the way your friends intrude into your personal zone, makes your spouse feel highly irritated.<\/p>\n
Your friends know that their actions is ruining your marriage. But they are not bothered. They deliberately intrude into your family time. They intentionally give you wrong advice when you confide about your relationship problems with them.<\/p>\n
Here are 7 clear cut signs how friends ruin your marriage<\/h2>\n
1. Steals your personal time<\/strong><\/p>\nYour untrue friend calls you in the mobile when you are with your spouse. He\\she deliberately talks with you for long hours.<\/p>\n
This makes your spouse fume with anger and irritation at the loss of his\\her personal space with you.<\/p>\n
2. Intrudes into family outings<\/strong><\/p>\nYour spouse might plan a personal outing with you. When you tell your friend about your plans, he\\she thrusts himself\\herself into your family outing.<\/p>\n
Your friend says that he\\she would love to join your family. You just cannot say no. Your spouse can only fume in helpless anger against your friend.<\/p>\n
3. Makes you addicted to bad habits<\/strong><\/p>\nYour untrue friend deliberately takes you towards the wrong path of bad habits.<\/p>\n
He\\she introduces you to alcohol and drugs which eventually destroys your family life.<\/p>\n
4. Gives wrong relationship ideas<\/strong><\/p>\nYou unthinkingly share your relationship issues with your friend. Instead of advising you to adjust with your spouse, he\\she gives you wrong advice which actually intensifies your relationship problems.<\/p>\n
Your friend does not solve your relationship problems. In fact, your friend makes you feel that your spouse is not worth your love.<\/p>\n
5. Uses your personal belongings<\/strong><\/p>\nYour friend uses your personal things as if it was his\\her own.<\/p>\n
He\\she borrows your personal things and does not return them. This irritates your spouse no end.<\/p>\n
6. Borrows money<\/strong><\/p>\nYour friend creates lot of tension in your relationship by borrowing money from you. You frequently lend money to your friend without the knowledge of your spouse.<\/p>\n
When your spouse comes to know about it, it creates terrible rift in your marriage. Your husband\\wife rightfully feels that your friends are fleecing you out of your hard-earned money.<\/p>\n
A good friend knows that you have a lot of financial commitments after your marriage. So he\\she would not embarrass you by asking you for money.<\/p>\n
7. Barges into your family time<\/strong><\/p>\nYour friends ruin your marriage by not having the decency to understand that they should not barge into your personal space with your spouse.<\/p>\n
You might want to spend some quality time with your family, but your friend delibrately bulldozes his\\her way into your family time. Your spouse could only fume and fret.<\/p>\n
Only friends who never really know the true value of friendship would continue committing these mistakes.<\/p>\n
You must not allow such friends to ruin your married life. Your family should always come first.<\/p>\n
You must definitely explain to your friends that their behavior is causing unwanted misunderstanding in your family life.<\/p>\n
True friends immediately understand you from your viewpoint. They instantly apologize and take a step back away from you. They remain your friends always. You need such friends only.<\/p>\n
Any relationship flourishes only when it has enough space. You need space from your parents so that you can evolve by yourself.<\/p>\n
Your children want their space to live their own life. Your spouse also needs spacing to have some personal time for himself\\herself.<\/p>\n
You need spacing from your friends too after your marriage.<\/p>\n
Your friends too should know that they should take a step back from you after your marriage.<\/p>\n
They cannot expect you to spend long hours with them after your marriage. They should know that your inability to see them often does not mean you have forgone your friendship with them.<\/p>\n
It is just that your priorities have changed. Good friends understand this perfectly. Such friends eventually become family friends after your marriage.<\/p>\n
Simple tricks to make your good friends your family friends<\/h3>\n\n- When your spouse does not know your friends, he\\she is never friendly with them.<\/li>\n
- So, after marriage, you should introduce your friends to your spouse so that he\\she also gets to know about them. When your friends becomes a family friends, your spouse does not have any reservations about them.<\/li>\n
- When you plan a family outing, you can plan an occasional one with your friends as it further tightens your friendship. Such friendship lasts a life time.<\/li>\n
- Do not complain about your spouse to your friend as he\\she loses the respect towards your husband\\wife.<\/li>\n
- Do not talk in a low voice in the mobile with your friends as it makes your spouse suspicious.<\/li>\n
- Be very careful when you interact with friends of the opposite sex. Spending long time with friends of the opposite sex makes your spouse angry with frustrated doubts about the nature of your friendship.<\/li>\n
- Do not make unnecessary physical contact with your female\\male friends. There should be a dignified distance between you.<\/li>\n
- It is perfectly right on your part if you deviate a little away from friends of the opposite sex after your marriage. Your friendship should have a good dividing line to make your friendship last for long.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Conclusion about friends who go all out to destroy your relationship<\/h4>\n“Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.” \u2013 Khalil Gibran<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\nIt is true that you cannot do without friends, as you need an outlet for your true emotions. But your family means more to you than your friends .<\/p>\n
A true friend will never enter into your private world with your family. He\\she perfectly knows his\\her limits.<\/p>\n
You need more of such friends and not friends who think it their right to have you at their beck and call.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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