Be empathetic<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Why are you angry with your spouse?<\/p>\n

It is because you are concentrated on your viewpoint. You are not bothered to understand about the views of your spouse.<\/p>\n

When you are angry, you just utter words of dissent and move away from the place thinking nothing of its repercussions.<\/p>\n

How will you feel when your spouse flares up against you without any reason?<\/p>\n

You will feel highly resentful, won\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

What is to you is the same to your spouse.<\/p>\n

Realize the repercussions<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You will never show needless anger if you know about its devastating impact in your relationship.<\/p>\n

The love between you is lost.<\/p>\n

Your interaction turns abusive and offensive.<\/p>\n

Your spouse feels resentful. His\\her resentment snowballs to finally destroy it.<\/p>\n

Forgo expectations<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Most of you are angry against your spouse because you have too many expectations. And mostly your expectations are never really met.<\/p>\n

When your expectations are not realized you are disappointed. Your disappointment makes you frustrated. And you frustration finally makes you flare up. So, forgo your expectations if you want to forgo anger in marriage.<\/p>\n

Share your emotions<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you hide your emotions from your spouse, you feel suffocated. When you do not like something which your spouse does, share your feelings with him\\her.<\/p>\n

Pent up emotions inevitably ends in volcanic display of anger.<\/p>\n

Move away from the place<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you feel you are going to erupt, you must move away from the place. Never stay in that place.<\/p>\n

If you do so, your anger becomes even more volatile.<\/p>\n

But when you move away from the place, your temper easily cools down to normalcy.<\/p>\n

Mind your words. <\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your words have the impact of a sword. It can tear your relationship into shreds. So, control the bitter words waiting to erupt from you.<\/p>\n

You are not going to gain anything from uttering bitter words against your spouse. He\\she is not your enemy that you should go all out to display your anger.<\/p>\n

CONCLUSION<\/h4>\n

So, anger in marriage is acceptable only when it is reasonable and rare. Never let it become a frequent occurrence in your relationship. If you really understand its devastating effect, you will easily refrain from bursting out in unwanted anger.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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