Your husband still has the old school thought that he is the head of the family. He wants you to ask him permission for everything you want to do.<\/p>\n

He bosses you around to do services to him.<\/p>\n

He controls your money.<\/p>\n

He hates it when you do things without asking him.<\/p>\n

You feel school girlish before him when you have to ask his consent as if you had no mind of your own.<\/p>\n

5. Criticizes your body<\/strong><\/h3>\n

He makes fun of your appearance, as he knows you are very sensitive about it.<\/p>\n

It gives him sadistic pleasure when he knows his comments is needling you the wrong way.<\/p>\n

There are times he makes fun of your obese look. There are times he makes fun of your not-so-beautiful looks.<\/p>\n

There are times he compares you with other women.<\/p>\n

Your blood boils in anger when he goes about describing the physical attributes about other women.<\/p>\n

Yet another marriage wrecking emotionally abusive behaviors of your husband.<\/p>\n

6. Immature behavior<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Your husband makes you feel ashamed by his immature behavior.<\/p>\n

He yells and screams with wild anger for innocuous reasons. You cringe in shame when he misbehaves with you in the full view of the public.<\/p>\n

He is never rational and practical.<\/p>\n

He never shares family problems with you.<\/p>\n

He throws things around to show his anger. He is too keyed up with even minor family issues that you feel lost as to the ways to deal with it.<\/p>\n

7. Irresponsible attitude<\/strong><\/h3>\n

The irresponsible behavior of your husband unnerves you. He makes you handle you never-ending family issues all by yourself.<\/p>\n

There are times when he holds himself aloof as if he has nothing to with your family.<\/p>\n

In some extreme cases, your husband disappears from the scene when there is an emergency financial need.<\/p>\n

My neighbor\u2019s husband disappeared for years when his family faced debts. I still remember the hardships faced by my neighbor in bringing up her children amidst her financial downfall. Suddenly her husband appeared out of the blue after she had clear off all her debts.<\/p>\n

That he got a tongue lashing from neighbor is another story.<\/p>\n

CONCLUSION<\/h4>\n

\u201cThe scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps but are often not as obvious. In fact, even among women who have experienced violence from a partner, half or more report that the man\u2019s emotional abuse is what is causing them the greatest harm.\u201d- \u00a0Lundy Bancroft <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Marriage is all about mutual sharing of problems and issues. And it is also all about mutual respect. When your husband is abusive, you wonder about the love which has disappeared from your marriage.<\/p>\n

Never ever, tolerate these abusive behaviors of your husband. You were not born to be ill-treated and trampled by him. Hold your self-esteem high by keeping the abusive behavior of your husband in the bay.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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