Do you know how infidelity in relationship happen?<\/h1>\n

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You marry out of intense love for your spouse. And, so naturally, you have a lot of expectations about him\\her.<\/p>\n

In the initial days of your marriage, your spouse more than fulfills your expectations. But as days go by, the emotional distance between you lengthens and widens. Fights and arguments become frequent between you.<\/p>\n

Most of you want to be loyal to your spouse. You never want to cheat him\\her. After all, you married your spouse out of your intense love for him\\her.<\/p>\n

But, it is a harsh fact that you are completely dissatisfied with your spouse when he\\she never fulfills your emotional needs.<\/p>\n

Often infidelity enters your marriage when you do not know the dividing line there should be in your friendship with the opposite sex.<\/p>\n

In today\u2019s modern age, you have to work amongst the opposite sex. You share a good relationship with them. It is all fine until you know where to stop.<\/p>\n

But sadly, often you never know your boundary line.<\/p>\n

When you are friendly with the opposite sex, you convince your mind that your relationship is platonic and there is nothing wrong in it.<\/p>\n

You also convince yourself that you are not cheating your spouse by being a mere friend to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n

The more convincing you have to do to make your friendship seem platonic, the more emotionally attached you are becoming to the person. And emotional involvement with another person other than your spouse does not spell good for your relationship.<\/p>\n

When you feel it easy to share your feelings with another person, you hide your friendship from your spouse.<\/p>\n

Many a time platonic relationship becomes physical because of the secrecy involved.<\/a><\/p>\n

When you do not enjoy a good relationship with your spouse, you feel used and neglected. You literally fume with anger and resentment against him\\her.<\/p>\n

You find it impossible to share your inner feelings with your spouse, when you have a tense relationship with him\\her. But your bottled up emotions seeks an outlet. This is where infidelity in relationship happens.<\/p>\n

When another person lends you a comfortable shoulder to lean on, you struggle to be loyal to your spouse.<\/a><\/p>\n

When your spouse does not support you in any way, you become emotionally detached from him\\her.<\/p>\n

You are so angry with your spouse that you store intense resentment against him\\her.<\/p>\n

When your colleague\\friend support you and talks caringly to you, you forget that you are married.<\/p>\n

Your emotionally deprived mind find solace in the arms of another person.<\/p>\n

7. Long distance<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you live too far away from your spouse, you feel lonely and alone. The distance between you and your spouse makes it impossible for you to stay connected with him\\her.<\/p>\n

You mingle with other people to do away with your loneliness. A particular person might make you feel comfortable and relaxed. You share your emotions with that person. When that person makes your loneliness disappear, it leads to unwanted infidelity in relationship.<\/p>\n

8. No longer attracted to your spouse<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you are not attracted to your spouse, you no longer want to spend time with him\\her.<\/p>\n

So, you spend most of your time away from him\\her. And you easily feel attracted to your colleague\\friend who is smarter and attractive than your spouse.<\/p>\n

The physical attraction you feel towards the other person ends in being unfaithful to your spouse.<\/p>\n

9. Abusive behavior<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Is your spouse abusive and obnoxious in his\\her behavior towards you?<\/p>\n

This makes you hate your spouse for his\\her rudeness.<\/p>\n

You feel there is nothing in your relationship that you can cherish and treasure.<\/p>\n

10. Lack of communication<\/strong><\/h3>\n

As years go by, you find there is nothing to talk with your spouse. When there is no communication between you, you have no one to share your feelings.<\/p>\n

Just because you have ceased to communicate with your spouse, it does not mean you are totally averse to interacting with others.<\/p>\n

You do want to share your feelings. When someone listens to you, you jump the fence.<\/p>\n

11. Just for the sake of variety<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Modernity has robbed marriage off its many unique qualities. One such quality is loyalty. You feel that what the eye does not see, the heart does not feel.<\/p>\n

So, you feel you are justified in indulging in extramarital affairs without the knowledge of your spouse. You just want variety.<\/p>\n

CONCLUSION<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\u201cCheating and lying aren’t struggles; they’re reasons to break up.\u201d\u00a0– \u2015Patti Callahan Henry <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever might the reasons for your infidelity, it is a sure marriage wrecker. It is so easy to destroy your marriage by being unfaithful to your spouse. And the end product of infidelity is remorse and regret. Nothing else.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Reasons for infidelity in relationship might be varied. But, the devastation it causes to your marriage is often the same. It inevitably destroys it. Do you know how infidelity in relationship happen? You marry out of intense love for your spouse. And, so naturally, you have a lot of expectations about him\\her. In the initial […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n