{"id":6678,"date":"2018-12-11T11:55:40","date_gmt":"2018-12-11T17:55:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/?p=6678"},"modified":"2018-12-11T11:59:58","modified_gmt":"2018-12-11T17:59:58","slug":"role-of-a-father-overlooked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.breezystorm.com\/role-of-a-father-overlooked\/","title":{"rendered":"Why is your role of a father overlooked by your adult children?"},"content":{"rendered":"
You always feel that your role of a father is overlooked by your adult children, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
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You are confused why the role of your wife as a mother is highly appreciated by your grown up children.<\/p>\n
But, there is hardly a whisper about your role of a father.<\/p>\n
In fact, you are often criticized for being unloving, irresponsible and wooden with your adult children. Your children do love you even as they grow up, but they rush to your wife for their emotional needs. They often never confide in you as they do with your wife.<\/p>\n
You are often frustrated when your children never give you as much importance as they do to your wife.<\/p>\n
You are in fact a mere spectator to the bond between your wife and your children as they grow into adults, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n
Why does this happen to you in your family?<\/p>\n
You fail to understand that the mentality of your children changes drastically as they grow up. Their transformation from childhood to adulthood takes you off-balance. Your children become questioning, demanding, and highly independent. They are no longer the kids who looked upon you for almost everything.<\/p>\n
Your male attitude finds it impossible to cope up with the growing emotional needs of your adult children. This is where your wife scores over you.<\/a><\/p>\n As a woman, your wife has an uncanny knack of understanding the pulse of her children even when they become adults. So, she effortlessly strikes an emotional chord with them.<\/p>\n This psychological understanding in the approach of your wife towards your adult children is an emphatic answer to your queries about your children ignoring you when they grow up.<\/p>\n When your children are born, you feel emotionally secure, as you have now branched out as a family. You adore and cherish your children.<\/p>\n But, you have a world of your own. Your family too sometimes do not have a place in it. You can spend tons of your time without your family. You are in home, but not exactly with your family.<\/p>\n Are you confused at the insinuation for your role of a father?<\/p>\n Analyze your day-to-day interaction with your children!<\/p>\n Your interaction with your children is very spontaneous and full of fun. But sadly, it is very brief. You do not have the patience or the energy to spend too much of fun time with them. And your children direly needs playful time with you to feel loved and cared.<\/p>\n After your brief loving moments with your children, you plumb yourself before the television\\internet\\video games.<\/p>\n Often your concentration is on your work, your hobbies, and your entertainment. This does not mean you do not love your children. Of course, you love them. You slave for their betterment. But you fail to carry the message of your love to your children.<\/p>\nDo you know that the mentality of your wife towards your children is in exact contrast to you?<\/strong><\/h3>\n