Definitely, many a time.<\/p>\n

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• And also observe how long you stay at home without uttering a word to your spouse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  You will be amazed at the lengthy silence you maintain at home, making your spouse feel utterly unloved and lonely.<\/p>\n

  Here is why words matter a lot in marriage.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Let us see through a simple example.<\/p>\n

  How will you feel when your higher officials make degrading comments about your work?<\/p>\n

  You feel tensed and stressed in your workplace.<\/p>\n

  How will your day be when your boss consistently blasts you about your working style?<\/p>\n

  You hate working there, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

  Let us reverse the scenario in your workplace, now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

  How will you feel if your higher officials\\boss are appreciative?<\/p>\n

  You feel pleased and want to give your best to your job.<\/p>\n

  Can you see how words matter a lot in your work place also?<\/p>\n

  The words you hear from your colleagues\\higher officials\\boss decides your comfort level at your workplace.<\/p>\n

  How can it be any different in your relationship with your spouse?<\/p>\n

  Words of care and love makes your marriage strong and stable.<\/p>\n

  But why is it your interaction with your spouse is always staid and boring?<\/p>\n

  You used many words of endearments when you were in love, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

  Why do you desist from using loving words after your marriage?<\/p>\n

  Do you know that your spouse never outgrows your loving words, be it before marriage or after marriage?<\/p>\n

  But strangely, you become pragmatic towards your spouse after your marriage. So, you do not think twice before uttering abusive and destructive words against your spouse.<\/p>\n

  Do you know words of abuse foretell the failure of your marriage?<\/a><\/p>\n

  Can you abuse someone whom you love deeply?<\/p>\n

  You cannot. And you will not.<\/p>\n

  Only when the love for your spouse takes a back seat, do you feel it easy to find faults with him\\her. And you also utter demeaning words which deeply hurt your spouse and finally your relationship.<\/p>\n

  Why did you feel it easy to say loving words before your marriage? <\/strong><\/p>\n

  Before marriage, you have no responsibilities towards your spouse. You lead a carefree life of being together, laughing together and enjoying together.<\/p>\n

  You put your best forward and your spouse does the same. Both want to get into the good books of each other.<\/p>\n

  Words of love come easily to you during your dating days.<\/strong><\/p>\n

  When your\u00a0 spouse looks worried, you utter consoling words and coax him\\her come back to normal.<\/p>\n

  There is a complete volte face in your behavior after your marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

  When you have loads of responsibilities thrust on you after marriage, you become tensed and stressed.<\/p>\n

  And after marriage, you do not care when your spouse looks worried or distressed.<\/p>\n

  You take a slanting look at the worried face of your spouse and casually overlook it.<\/p>\n

  You do not bother to utter comforting words to make your spouse feel comforted.<\/p>\n

  Naturally, your spouse feels emotionally shattered and mentally upset wondering about the brevity of your love.<\/p>\n

  Here is why words matter a lot in marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

  Speak appreciative words. <\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Words of appreciation makes your spouse happy and content that you value him\\her.<\/p>\n

  Appreciate the good looks of your spouse. This is one compliment he\\she looks forward to.<\/p>\n

  Appreciate the good things your spouse does for the family.<\/p>\n

  Utter consoling words.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  When your spouse looks stressed or tensed, console him\\her.<\/p>\n

  Your comforting words mean a lot to your spouse.<\/p>\n

  Utter encouraging words.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Encourage the capacity of your spouse.<\/p>\n

  Make your spouse feel that he\\she is efficient and capable.<\/p>\n

  Utter supportive words.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

  Never isolate your spouse by saying accusing words. It makes him\\her turn hostile against you.<\/p>\n

  Never ever, utter degrading words about your spouse.<\/p>\n

  Never abuse your spouse with the sole intention of degrading him\\her.<\/p>\n

  Conclusion <\/strong><\/h4>\n

  \u201cI have always considered marriage as the most interesting event of one’s life, the foundation of happiness or misery.\u201d \u2013 George Washington \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

  The emotional aspects in marriage should never be ignored. If unnoticed and overlooked, it can destroy your relationship.<\/p>\n

  This is the reason you should understand the impact your words creates in your marriage.<\/p>\n

  Yes!<\/p>\n

  Words are your most powerful weapon which helps to build your relationship into an impregnable fortress.<\/p>\n

  Why not use it the proper way and make your marriage flourish?<\/p>\n

  I have started a new Youtube channel “Marriage Realities.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  Here is the link to my channel!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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