You find it very difficult to hold your relationship together when you face such emotionally draining problems. Most modern couples find it easy to annul their marriage when such relationship disasters crop up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shall we now look how marriage disasters destroys your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Debts make your\nmarriage struggle<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you are knee deep in debt, blaming game between you\nbegins. You accuse your spouse to be reason behind the financial debacle you\nface. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And your spouse is quick to point out how you are the culprit behind your monetary disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Interest from the money you borrow eats up into your budget\nleaving you with no money for your essential spending. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You no longer can afford to eat out, buy new clothes, or\nplan a vacation. When your natural and normal wishes are not fulfilled, you\nwant to get out of your marriage, as you are sure your spouse is the culprit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You feel frustrated that you do not have money for your\nbasics. And you are terrified when the telephone bell rings. It might be the\nlenders! You literally cringe in helpless terror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solution<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now is the time you should join hands with your spouse. He\\she needs your support drastically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should think and act firmly. You should have a frank\ndiscussion with your spouse and find the loopholes through which your money is\ndraining and plug them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should tell your children that they too have to adjust\nfor a short period. Assure them that when the loan was done with, they can\nenjoy all the good things in life. When your entire family rises to the\noccasion, you can get rid of your debt steadily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Extramarital affairs\nwrecks your relationship like a sledgehammer <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Loyalty and faithfulness makes your marriage stable and long\nlasting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when your spouse finds another person more attractive\nthan you, and crosses his\\her border, it causes incredible bitterness and anger\nin your relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You lose the love you have for your spouse when he\\she\ndaringly has an affair. And the lost love cannot be retrieved that easily. Your\ntears of anguish make you hardened against your spouse and you hate to live in\nthe same house with him\\her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Infidelity is something which can never tolerated by you,\nisn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When your spouse daringly has an affair behind your back,\nyou wonder bitterly about the meaning of the love you had for each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything about your relationship loses its luster and all\nthat is left is hatred and revulsion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solution!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Extra marital affairs are the worst possible destroyer of\nyour relationship. The attraction for another person is very short lived and\ntemporary. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Can any affair last on physical attraction? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Definitely not!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most out of extra marital affairs are invariably physical\nand not emotional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do not destroy your marriage for something as fickle and\nfeeble as physical attraction. If your love for each other is unflinching, both\ncannot think of another person in your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fight against such unsteady relationship and lean towards\nyour spouse to strengthen your marriage with your sustained love and care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Illness of your\ndear ones<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is yet another traumatic marriage crisis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You love your family ardently, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when your spouse\\child falls sick with a life\nthreatening disease, you feel your happiness has ended. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything else goes out of focus and your terrified mind\nliterally screams in agony to see your precious one suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your life turns upside down and you forget your laughter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The never ending medical bills, your inability to look after\nyour family, depleted money, and the resultant work stress take a toll of your\npeace and you just want to disappear from the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solution!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is indeed tragic that you have to undergo such a marriage crisis. But your sick child\\husband needs your care and support so much that you cannot afford to sit down and cry. When you are mentally shattered, you will be unable to look after your sick child\\spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should pretend to be courageous even if you are not. Comfort\nyour child\\spouse with words of reassurance and encouragement.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. The loss of your\njob shatters your self-esteem<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you are unemployed before marriage, it affects only\nyou. But to be out of your job when you are married is altogether a different\nsituation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have many financial commitments which cannot be met by\nthe money earned by your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You also feel that your spouse has lost his\\her respect for\nyou because of your inability to contribute for the betterment of the family. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You do not have money for your personal expenditure also.\nYour tiny wishes go unnoticed and uncared by your spouse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It injects a sense of inferiority complex in you. You also easily\npick up fight with your spouse assuming that he\\she does not respect or love\nyou any longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solution!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

During the recent recession, many corporate companies did\naway with many employees as a cut back into the expenses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

An Indian couple showed how love can overcome any hurdle.\nWhen his wife lost her job, the husband was not flustered. He too resigned his\njob and along with his wife started a catering business, as his wife was an\nexpert cook. Now they have a flourishing business and earn lots more than what\nthey were earning. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is how your love for each other should be \u2013 Not letting\ndown your spouse!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Death of a family\nmember makes you lost forever<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you lose a precious member of your family, life stands\nstill for you. You feel devoid of any happiness and your heart aches at how God\ncould be so cruel. You shrink yourself into a shell and become gloomy and\nmiserable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solution!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Life never stops for anyone and goes on and on. You have\nother members of your family to look after. You should understand that your\nsorrow reflects on them also. You should be spiritually close to the departed\nsoul and make yourself courageous to look after your family. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you think it is happiness and peace that strengthens your\nrelationship? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every couple can be happy and peaceful when the going is\ngood. But tough times are the real test to the love you have for each other.\nWhen you let your spouse suffer alone when there are problems, your marriage is\na failure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But, when you hold his\\her hands to fight out your marriage disasters, your relationship can survive any hardships that might come your way. This is what true love is all about.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you know that certain marriage disasters can make your married life terribly agonizing and nightmarish? It is true that a marriage without problems does not exist. But when you have the support of your spouse, you face it with perseverance and guts. You take your family issues in your stride as you gather immense […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n