I am sure you would disagree with me. You are definite that\nlove alone can make your marriage thriving and blossoming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you are right. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love is the foundation of your marriage. Without it, your\nrelationship will crash to failure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you cannot live on love alone. Without money, your\nmarried life will totter towards uncertainty and insecurity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is very surprising how money related issues in marriage destroys the happiness and contentment quotient of your relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Money related issues in marriage wrecks your relationship. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Money has become an awesome power in the world and no one\nrespects you if you do not have it. And sadly, its overwhelming power affects\nyour married life also.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your spouse might be caring, and loving. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You adore your spouse for his\\her care and dedication, but when there is no money for your basic needs, you argue and fight with him\\her for petty reasons. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You become jumpy and edgy when there is no money to fulfill your family’s financial commitments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You feel comfortable and relaxed only when there is enough money in the family. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you do not have money, you become needlessly keyed up and tensed up against your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You do not like your mediocre lifestyle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You fume and fret that you have to run from pillar to post to fulfill even your basic needs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unintentionally, you pick up fights with your spouse. You utter harsh words against your spouse when your finance is depleted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is all fine to say that only love can make your marriage work. But in actual fact, it is money which makes your marriage survive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Without money, you and your spouse indulge in petty\narguments which snowball into bitter fights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You feel terribly hurt by the harsh words exchanged between you, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Though you love your spouse, you are unable to control your anger when you struggle to make both ends meet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are the many more reasons for money related issues in marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

• You cannot live on love alone in this mercenary\nworld.<\/li>
• You need money for almost everything.<\/li>
• Your children\u2019s education needs money.<\/li>
• Your repayments needs money.<\/li>
• You need money for your daily expenditure.<\/li>
• You need money to enjoy a standard of living. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

  You cannot fulfill any one of these family\u2019s financial commitments\nwith your love. It needs dollars, euros, rupees, and yens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Why has money gathered such awesome power in marriage? <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Did money have this much of power during the yester generation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Money was always a power to reckon with in married life, even during the yester generation. But the needs of your yester sisters and brothers was not very big and flashy as it is now. They felt content when they had money for their basic survival.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  But in this modern world, luxuries and flashy lifestyle have become the order of the day.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  In the present-day, you want to match others in your social\nstatus. You want to have a good standard of living. Otherwise, you feel your life\nis one hell of a drudgery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  You need money to show off your wealth and affluence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  The world market is flooded with things that attract you and you want to possess it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When you do not have enough money to own the latest technologies and luxuries, you feel frustrated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  And you take upon your frustration on spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Spending recklessly is also one of the topmost money issues in marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When you spend your hard earned money recklessly, you never think that it will become a relationship issue. But when your irresponsible spending cuts into your budget, a series of blaming game crops up between you. Both lock horns as to who was at fault for the financial drubbing you now face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When there is no money for your financial commitments, you and your spouse stand diversified.\u00a0 <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Yet another niggling money related issues in marriage is sharing of your financial commitments. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When you earn more than your spouse does, he\\she wants you to share more of your family’s financial commitments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  This makes you feel that your spouse is leeching you off your money without giving his\\her share to the financial needs of the family. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  You are frustrated when you have to bear the brunt of your family\u2019s financial commitments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Being forced to be the major contributor towards the financial needs of your family is one of the money-related issues in marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Being controlled in money matters is also a relationship issue.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When you do not have personal money to fulfill your tiny wishes and desires, you are embittered and disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  When your spouse tries to control your money, you do not like it a wee bit. You feel deprived when you have to ask his\\her permission to fulfill your personal wishes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Diversified way of spending money is also a money issue.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  In most marriages, one is a spender while the other wants to save. This creates tons of arguments between you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  These are the topmost common money issues in most modern marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Never let this happen to your marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  Is there a solution to these money related issues in marriage?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

  Of course there is.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  For this, both should understand money in its right perspective.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  • Money is just tool to live a good standard of living. <\/li>
  • It gives you the independence to live your life on your own terms and conditions. <\/li>
  • You are able to enjoy an enviable social status. And the society respects you for your affluence and wealth.<\/li>
  • You are able to buy the best things the world has to offer. <\/li>
  • But, money in no way brings compatibility to your marriage. It depends upon the adaptability and flexibility you display towards your spouse.<\/li>
  • Every financial problem in the family concerns both and should be tackled together. <\/li>
  • Transparency in money matters makes your marriage lot tension free. <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    CONCLUSION<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201cAs much money and life as you could want! The two things most human beings would choose above all – the trouble is, humans do have a knack of choosing precisely those things that are worst for them.\u201d J.K Rowling<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    With both earning, you have enough money to lead a\ncomfortable life, don\u2019t you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    But sadly, money itself becomes a big problem with you. You\nlock horns with your spouse regarding the money issues in marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    You are unwilling to sort out the money problems that crop\nup between you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Always look at financial problem as a family problem, and not as an individual problem of your spouse. Your family\u2019s financial issues should be handled together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    What is the use of you earning lots of money if you make it an\nissue to fight and argue with your spouse? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    You can enjoy excellent family life if you tackle all your money related issues together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When you discuss your financial commitments mutually, you will spend wisely, invest sensibly, while enjoying a good standard of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Always treat money as a commodity to make you financially secure, and not as the entireity of marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    I have started a new Youtube channel “Marriage Realities.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    It is a comprehensive relationship channel which deals with many of the issues married couples face.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Subscribe to my channel to understand your marriage in a new light.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Here is the link to “Marriage Realities.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCNrT3KOkTU5ITQMyYnVsxGQ<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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