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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nMost of you never pay a great deal of attention to the way\nyou interact with your spouse. You feel communication in marriage is just\ntalking with him\\her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is not so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Communication is a tool which conveys your emotions to your spouse through your words and actions. If you take this aspect in your marriage too lightly, it creates tons of misunderstandings between you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here is why communication in marriage is important.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n- Wrong words you choose to utter against your\nspouse damages your marriage as nothing else can do. <\/li>
- And the tone of your voice can make your wrong\nwords sound even more contemptuous and degrading to your spouse. <\/li>
- And your body language when you utter those\nwrong words makes it sound all the more lethal.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Are you confused about what I am implying?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let me explain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- You communicate with your spouse verbally.<\/li>
- You modulate your voice to add more meaning to\nyour words. <\/li>
- You also use your body language to enhance the\nwords you speak.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
These three aspects in your communication with your spouse literally\ndecides the mood of your interaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Is it not it a fact that you do not know that your spouse sees and feels many things in the way you communicate with him\\her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most of you do not know the power of the words you use when communicating with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is time you realized that words can make or break your marriage.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\nMost of you also never know the power of your voice\nmodulation when you interact with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your tone when you talk with your spouse conveys many hidden messages to him\\her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The derisive tenor in your voice makes your words sound tremendously wounding and hurting to your spouse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The high pitch in your voice makes you sound controlling and dominating to your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, realize that you should concentrate on the way you speak\nwith your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You also never know the power of your body language because it is an integral part of your communication. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Though, you may not utter words that convey your real feelings about your spouse in words, your body language hides nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rolling your eyes, looking away when your spouse is talking\nwith you and many more such negative body language you often use is destructive\nto your marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Can you see how there are many angles to communication in marriage? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nThe words you speak, how you speak and how you use your body\nlanguage are all part of communication in marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why are your words important in your communication?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nIt is because words have the power of showing what is in\nyour mind. When you utter degrading words, it leaves behind a scar which your\nspouse finds it very difficult to forget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why is your voice modulation important to communication in marriage?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nThe way you speak to your spouse is keenly watched by\nhim\\her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you raise your voice to convey your anger or dissent, your\nspouse becomes hostile just by your tone. The loud and commanding tone of your\nvoice makes the hackles of your spouse rise with fury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why is your body language important in communication in marriage?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nYou might hide your feelings from your spouse. You might not\nopenly talk about it. But your body language hides nothing. It displays what is\nin your mind, openly and bluntly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is sad that you never knew these angles in your communication with your spouse. You speak without thinking about the feelings of your spouse, and lead your marriage towards its inevitable failure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is not as though you do not know how to communicate. You\nknow the perfect art of communicating with your colleagues\\friends\\strangers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are very skilled in communicating in your workplace. You know the right words to talk with your colleagues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are perfect in knowing how to interact even with strangers. You pay so much great attention to the words you speak with others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have you spurted out in volatile anger in your workplace?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You do not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You know your unwarranted words could jeopardize your work. So, even when your colleagues rub you the wrong way, you do not react with anger. You are intelligent enough to manage the situation with apt diplomacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But somehow you falter and fumble when interacting with your spouse. You often put your foot in your mouth by making unwarranted comments about your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you scarcely notice how you are communicating with your\nspouse, it spells danger to your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Strangely, you knew perfectly well how to communicate with your spouse in the early days of your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the newness of your marriage, you uttered the right words\nwhen you interacted with your spouse. You used perfect voice modulation. Your body\nlanguage was also near flawless. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But after a few years of marriage, it is as though you forgot how to communicate with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You utter bitter words against your spouse as though he\\she is\nyour enemy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your tone is often derisive, deadpan, emotionless,\nsarcastic, skeptical and contemptuous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Are you confused about what I am implying?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let me explain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
- You communicate with your spouse verbally.<\/li>
- You modulate your voice to add more meaning to\nyour words. <\/li>
- You also use your body language to enhance the\nwords you speak.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
These three aspects in your communication with your spouse literally\ndecides the mood of your interaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Is it not it a fact that you do not know that your spouse sees and feels many things in the way you communicate with him\\her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most of you do not know the power of the words you use when communicating with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is time you realized that words can make or break your marriage.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most of you also never know the power of your voice\nmodulation when you interact with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your tone when you talk with your spouse conveys many hidden messages to him\\her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The derisive tenor in your voice makes your words sound tremendously wounding and hurting to your spouse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The high pitch in your voice makes you sound controlling and dominating to your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, realize that you should concentrate on the way you speak\nwith your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You also never know the power of your body language because it is an integral part of your communication. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Though, you may not utter words that convey your real feelings about your spouse in words, your body language hides nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rolling your eyes, looking away when your spouse is talking\nwith you and many more such negative body language you often use is destructive\nto your marriage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Can you see how there are many angles to communication in marriage? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
The words you speak, how you speak and how you use your body\nlanguage are all part of communication in marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why are your words important in your communication?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is because words have the power of showing what is in\nyour mind. When you utter degrading words, it leaves behind a scar which your\nspouse finds it very difficult to forget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why is your voice modulation important to communication in marriage?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
The way you speak to your spouse is keenly watched by\nhim\\her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you raise your voice to convey your anger or dissent, your\nspouse becomes hostile just by your tone. The loud and commanding tone of your\nvoice makes the hackles of your spouse rise with fury.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why is your body language important in communication in marriage?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
You might hide your feelings from your spouse. You might not\nopenly talk about it. But your body language hides nothing. It displays what is\nin your mind, openly and bluntly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is sad that you never knew these angles in your communication with your spouse. You speak without thinking about the feelings of your spouse, and lead your marriage towards its inevitable failure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is not as though you do not know how to communicate. You\nknow the perfect art of communicating with your colleagues\\friends\\strangers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are very skilled in communicating in your workplace. You know the right words to talk with your colleagues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are perfect in knowing how to interact even with strangers. You pay so much great attention to the words you speak with others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have you spurted out in volatile anger in your workplace?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You do not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You know your unwarranted words could jeopardize your work. So, even when your colleagues rub you the wrong way, you do not react with anger. You are intelligent enough to manage the situation with apt diplomacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But somehow you falter and fumble when interacting with your spouse. You often put your foot in your mouth by making unwarranted comments about your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you scarcely notice how you are communicating with your\nspouse, it spells danger to your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Strangely, you knew perfectly well how to communicate with your spouse in the early days of your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the newness of your marriage, you uttered the right words\nwhen you interacted with your spouse. You used perfect voice modulation. Your body\nlanguage was also near flawless. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
But after a few years of marriage, it is as though you forgot how to communicate with your spouse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You utter bitter words against your spouse as though he\\she is\nyour enemy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your tone is often derisive, deadpan, emotionless,\nsarcastic, skeptical and contemptuous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n