1. Idealistic expectations <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first and foremost reason for lack of happiness in your marriage\nare your idealistic and rosy expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have lot of expectations about your spouse when you\nenter into your married life. The sad thing is that your expectations are based\non your personal wishes and whims. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You have certain dreams about your spouse. And when he\\she\nnever lives up to your dreams you are emotionally shattered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You never realize that your spouse too has dreams about you.\nAnd that he\\she too feels disappointed that you do not live up to his\\her\nexpectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The simple trick to overcome this problem is to lower your\nexpectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you do so, you can feel happy and content with your\nspouse for what he\\she is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Taking your marriage lightly<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most of you never really realize that marriage is a huge\ncommitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You do not also realize that your life during your love days\nand your life after your marriage are two different things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are stunned by the lifestyle changes you undergo after\nyour marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You never realized that your married life would be such a\nlong and endless procession of responsibilities and commitments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You had dreamt that your relationship after marriage would be as rosy as your dating days. But you are taken aback when your honeymoon days are short lived and brief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The euphoric glow of love you had about your spouse soon loses its sheen when you realize that you have tons of responsibilities in your married life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n