You should desist from giving a second chance to your man, if he has these mentally disturbing habits.<\/p>\n

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When you fall in love, you want to marry your man at any cost. Your love for your man is so deep, that you cannot think of your life apart from him. You want to spend your entire life, loving and cherishing the man you have chosen.<\/p>\n

But unfortunately, you sometimes chose a wrong person to fall in love with. Your man has many behavioral patterns, which makes you feel unsure whether you have selected the right person to spend the rest of your life with. When you are alarmed by the intensity of the misbehavior of your man, you should walk away from him. If you marry him in spite of all the warning signs, it could prove to your life\u2019s worst mistake.<\/p>\n

Even if you choose to walk away from your man, he would not let you off the hook that easily. He will come back into your life, asking for forgiveness. He will promise to change himself, and literally beg to accept him back. Since your love for your man has not yet died, you wrongly welcome him back into your life.<\/p>\n

After a few days of good behavior, your man reveals his true colors yet again to you. You feel miserable, when you find that the man you intended to marry has not changed a wee bit. You feel hurt, for being a fool to be deceived again and again by him. You should not commit of taking back your man, if has certain qualities. If you ignore the warning signals, your life will become disastrous and pathetic.<\/p>\n

Here are the warning signals that you should resist from giving a second chance to your man<\/strong><\/p>\n

No 1. Reason you should resist from giving a second chance to your man \u2013 When he is abusive<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is all fine, when your man has occasional angry flashes. He is after all human enough to feel angry. But when your man has a foul temperament, and takes upon every chance to abuse you, you must understand that he has no decency.<\/p>\n

If you marry such a person, he will retain his abusive behavior after marrying you also. Your man will continue to torture you, all through your life if you foolishly marry him. When you feel uneasy by the abusive behavior of your man, you should ruthlessly throw him out of your life.<\/p>\n

Your man might ask you forgiveness, and promise to change himself, but you must understand that he will do none of it.<\/a> When your man really loves you, he will also respect you. When he respects you, he will not abuse you.<\/p>\n

No 2. Reason you should resist from giving your man a second chance \u2013 When he has no stable job<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your married life will be hellish, if you marry an irresponsible man. A man without responsibilities is not reliable. Your marriage cannot survive on love alone. The stability of your marriage needs money. Unless your man is financially responsible, your marriage will have a short life span.<\/p>\n

When the man you love, jumps from one job to another, it just shows he is not responsible. When your man goes days without having a job, you must be on your red alert. Your man might whine to you, that he left his job as it did not have any scope for him. Do not fall into his trap. If your man was really responsible, he would not have left the job, until he found another job.<\/p>\n

Do not be emotional and feel you can accommodate your man, until he becomes responsible and committed. When your man finds out that you are willing to bear up with him, minus his job, he will pretend to be looking for another job without really doing it.<\/p>\n

If you marry such an irresponsible man, you will definitely feel you were a fool to have married a person who does not earn to sustain himself. Once you see your man jumping from one job to another, you should move away from him.<\/p>\n

No 3. Reason you should not give your man another chance \u2013 When he cheats you<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your man has casual affairs, even when he is in love with you, it proves that he is a cheat. When you catch him red handed, your man will beg for forgiveness. He will have the audacity to say, that he got carried away just one time and that there will no another time.<\/p>\n

When your man truly loves you, he will not be lured to another woman. If you accept his forgiveness and give him a second time, he will be cheating you, forever.\u00a0 Once a cheater, always a cheater. You must understand this simple logic.<\/a><\/p>\n

No 4. Reason you should not give your man another chance \u2013 When he demands money from you<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is true that after marriage, you will be sharing your money for mutual financial commitments of your family along with your man. But when your man asks you money, even before marrying you, it just shows how much he will leech you off money after marriage.<\/p>\n

Once you give the taste of giving money for his selfish needs, he will keep dipping into your money. Initially, your man will ask you money, by begging and pleading you. Gradually, the tone of his voice will turn demanding and commanding.<\/p>\n

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Your man will start demanding money from you, once he gets the taste of your generosity. When you do not give him money, he will refrain from calling you, so that you submit to his demands. When your man demands money for his personal needs, you should be ready to run away from him.<\/p>\n

No 5. Reason you should not give your man another chance \u2013 When he has addictive habits<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your man has indecent addictive habits like alcoholism and drugs, you should never ever think you can reform him. You want to marry your man, to live with him as his equal partner. You are not marrying your partner to reform him.<\/p>\n

You will be drained, emotionally and financially if your man is addicted to alcohol and drugs.<\/a><\/p>\n

You will feel you have destroyed your life, by blindly loving and marrying a man, who destroys himself by indulging in addictive habits.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your marriage will be a success, only when the man you love takes you seriously. Your man should give his love, just as you are giving yours.<\/p>\n

Do not marry your man, through your blind emotional love. Your man will destroy you. When you feel that the man you love is not for you, do not even think of giving him a second chance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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