But what if your husband is immature?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your married life becomes a daily torture when you have to deal with his wavering mood swings. You feel emotionally drained and washed out.<\/p>\n

Here are the 8 devastating signs that show your husband is immature.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

1. Your immature husband is not committed towards your family.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your husband is immature, he never thinks it is his duty to share family commitments with you. <\/p>\n

He coolly isolates himself when there are family problems as though it did not concern him. <\/p>\n

You want your husband to discuss family matters with you, but he never opens his mouth about it as he does not want to be pulled into the whirlpoop of fulfilling family duties.<\/p>\n

You can only fume and fret at the immaturity of your husband.<\/p>\n

2. Your immature husband has tremendous mood swings <\/strong><\/p>\n

You too experience mood swings. But not like the one your husband displays. <\/p>\n

He often yells and confronts you for innocuous reasons.<\/p>\n

When your husband is denied his wishes, it opens a floodgate of abusiveness from him.<\/p>\n

He screams at the top of his voice as though you had committed a grave mistake.<\/p>\n

He throws things around and sometimes hurts himself to meet his selfish demands.<\/p>\n

You are literally at your tether end not knowing how to handle the violent behavior of your immature husband. <\/p>\n

3. Your immature husband does not have a steady job<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your husband does not realize that you need the earnings of both to meet the financial needs of your family.<\/p>\n

In his irresponsibility he scarcely cares to give his best for his job.<\/p>\n

Since your husband is not sincere to his work, he does not have a stable job. He jumps from one job to another without caring to consider the financial needs of your family. <\/p>\n

Your husband is not ambitous.<\/p>\n

He lacks professionalism.<\/p>\n

He lacks work ethics.<\/p>\n

Naturally the management does not want him to work for them. Your husband is not bothered when he is dismissed.<\/p>\n

He pretends to look for another job, but in reality he does not.<\/p>\n

His attitude towards his profession is nomadic. He easily shifts from one company to another.<\/p>\n

4. Your husband is selfish<\/strong><\/p>\n

When your husband is immature, he becomes selfishness personified. <\/p>\n

He wants everything for himself.<\/p>\n

When he is earning, he spends only on himself.<\/p>\n

When your husband is not earning, he fleeces you off your money, without a thought about your predicament. <\/p>\n

When you reason with him that you have other financial commitments, he gets wild with anger.<\/p>\n

5. Your immature husband is accusing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your husband well knows that he is the reason behind the many issues your family faces. He also knows that your family problems are byproducts of his immaturity.<\/p>\n

But your husband refuses to accept his faults.<\/p>\n

He has the audacity to pinpoint you as the sole culprit behind the financial problems of your family.<\/p>\n

Your husband accuses you to be the reason behind the issues that your family faces. <\/p>\n

6. Your husband is pessimistic<\/strong><\/p>\n

If all the above negative qualities was not enough, your husband is also downright pessimistic. <\/p>\n

He has a gloomy attitude.<\/p>\n

He never smiles.<\/p>\n

His walk is sloopy and uncertain.<\/p>\n

He is more of a recluse. <\/p>\n

7. Your husband fleeces you off your money<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your husband is not interested in success or fame. He is always in need of money as he does not have a steady job.<\/p>\n

So, when your husband is immature he tortures you for money. You are his treasure box to financially help him every time he needs it.<\/p>\n

8. Your husband openly displays his immaturity <\/strong><\/p>\n

Your immature husband cries at the drop of the hat. When there are family issues, he feels terrified to face them.<\/p>\n

When you confront him, he cries like a child and clings to you for support.<\/p>\n

He is never decisive. He is never considerate.<\/p>\n

Does your husband have any of the qualities mentioned above?<\/span><\/p>\n

You are unlucky to have married a person who does not in any way support you. When the onus of running the family rests entirely on your already sagging shoulders you find it very stressful and nerve wracking.<\/p>\n

The immaturity of your husband makes you lose your peace of mind. You lose your happiness. You find it impossible to be patient with your husband. You often have bitter arguments with your immature husband<\/p>\n

You are often in a dilemma as to how to deal with his immaturity, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Should you let your immature husband have his way? Or should you confront him?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Both ways they are wrong.<\/p>\n

If you let him off the hook, he will never realize his responsibilities. If you confront him, he takes it as an excuse to abuse you.<\/p>\n

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• Never play the role of a mother and shelter your husband from family issues. He will never evolve into a mature person if you are motherly and sheltering.<\/li>\n
• Your husband will find it comfortable to hide behind your shoulders when you do so.<\/li>\n
• Talk to him kindly and involve him in family issues.<\/li>\n
• Appreciate his small contribution towards the family.<\/li>\n
• But be careful not be too kind and protective, as your husband will never change his attitude.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  You can only wait for a line of hope that your immature husband might change for the better.<\/p>\n

  Can your immature husband become mentally strong and mature?<\/strong><\/p>\n

  You need incredible patience. You need immense understanding.<\/p>\n

  You need huge willpower to pull your husband out of his immaturity. With the help of your relentless love he might slowly come out of his shell of irresponsibility.<\/p>\n

  Even a small positive change is your victory, isn’t it?<\/p>\n

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  Your married life becomes nightmarish and hellish when your husband is immature, isn’t it? He makes your married life torturous by not understanding his duties as a husband and father, doesn’t he? It is terrifying to live with such an immature husband, to say the least. Marriage is a responsibility which needs commitment from both. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[157,1586,1585,1584],"yoast_head":"\n