Comments on: How does age difference affect your marriage? Mind blowing negative impact https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/ Love forever until death do us part Sat, 01 May 2021 10:18:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.6.10 By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-13557 Sat, 01 May 2021 10:18:55 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-13557 In reply to HY.

Hi,
When you are emotionally too demanding your husband will find it very tough to handle it.
I do not understand why you should feel depressed and suicidal prone. And being hungry for 4 days. Are you behaving like this to attract the attention of your husband? You are doing it the wrong way.
When you act like this, the first thing your husband will lose is his sense of humor. He will lose his smile and become all serious and sober.
Your husband cannot keep on buying you gifts to make you feel happy.
I think you are very young and so do not understand the intricacies of marriage.
Why aren’t you working?
You should be. I think your lonliness is making feel left out and alone.
Do not delay in having a baby. A baby brings in immense positive changes in married life. A baby of your own will also change your married life.
Get used to the city you are living in.
Does having fun in life mean smoking?
It is an unhealthy habit and your husband is rightfully angry about it.
Be friendly with your husband. Do not be emotionally keyed up. Enjoy your marriage. Your husband does not seem a bad man. If you forgo your emotional demands he will become more pliable towards you.

]]> By: HY https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-13545 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 05:34:10 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-13545 Hi, my husband is 32 and I am 26. I got married when I was 24, but now I don’t know if it was for the right reasons. We dated for 3 years before that and it was all good but yes there were some trust problems and they also showed up a month before our wedding but I guess I got married because I was scared of being alone and there was family and everyone to think about. Lately I feel that he is exhausted of meeting my emotional needs, I do feel happy when he buys me gifts and the good days, but on the bad days, he doesn’t even bother to know that ive been starving for 4 days, feeling depressed suicidal and there is no support system for me where I am because it’s a city where he has his job. I feel that we are both from very different generations, I still feel like having fun and he’s become more serious about life and such. If I feel like smoking he now becomes angry and shouts and screams just because he wants to leave it. I don’t want to change who I am just to match his standards of lifestyle. What do I do? I regret a lot and I feel stuck. All people my age are working, making careers, enjoying and here I feel that I have to become serious and mother like. I don’t even want to have kids because that just makes me feel that I’ll be having them so that my husband is not an old dad and not because I really want to have them at that time.

]]> By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-13395 Sun, 11 Apr 2021 07:23:18 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-13395 In reply to rahul.

Hi Rahul,
The success of your marriage depends upon how you treat each other. If your girl friend behaves too maturely towards you, you will find your married life boring. And marrying your own wish, but a 38 year old woman would most probably be a bit too mature to your young age. Think a lot before marrying.

]]> By: rahul https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-13392 Sat, 10 Apr 2021 08:18:10 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-13392 Hi…
I am 27 fit and fine and my gf is 38 fit and fine… we r planning to get marry… but my family is not agreeing….

what u suggest

]]> By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-11346 Mon, 08 Jun 2020 23:16:52 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-11346 In reply to Joy.

Hi Joy,
It is true that 15 years is a big gap but it need not deter your sexual life. You should not withdraw away from your husband just because he does not satisfy you sexually. Sex is not a taboo topic that it should be avoided between you. You should talk about your needs to your husband. Unless you talk about it, your husband will be thinking that he is satisfying you, xexually. Talk to your husband about your sexual cravings. It might make a change in your married life.

]]> By: Joy https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-11133 Wed, 22 Apr 2020 15:44:00 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-11133 Hello

Iam 23yrs and my hubby is 38yrs meaning he’s 15 yrs older than me, he’s not able to satisfy my sexual feelings and my emotions for him is no longer there cos of his adulterous way, what can I do to revive back our relationship?

]]> By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/age-difference-affect-your-marriage/#comment-10274 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 05:17:12 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4154#comment-10274 In reply to Conrad Kleinpeter.

Hi Conrad,
You are indeed lucky.

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