Hi Brooke,

You say you have been married for 25 years. And it is strange that you still don’t trust your husband. Is the woman a colleague of your husband? If so, it might be a purely professional relationship. The woman having an affair is her own personal thing. It does not in any way suggest that she is having an affair with your husband. You need not trust the woman, but you should trust your husband. Needless suspicion can wreck your marriage. After 25 years you must now perfectly understand your husband. Is he capable of cheating you? Answer the question from the angle of your husband and not from the angle of the woman. If you really understand your husband you would know the answer to this question.
Don’t destroy what you have built for 25 years through your unwanted suspicion.

I’m having trouble with trust. I’ve been married 25 years. It has been mostly good. My husband is traveling several times per month with the same woman. I don’t trust her motives. I know she has had an affair in the past. He seems very protective of her. He denies an affair. It is eating me up inside…how do I handle it?

Hi Lalit,
You should be suffering a lot if your wife was aggressive and negative. But I don’t know the reasons behind her negativity and aggressiveness. If you are more specific I would be able to help you.