Comments on: Are you alarmed that your husband is unloving and uncaring towards you?

By: Mathi

Mathi — Sun, 20 Oct 2019 04:05:08 +0000

In reply to NiSHA.

Hi Nisha,’
This is one angle of the relationship issue I was talking about. I agree with you that there are many men who are loving and caring. I am in no way trying to say that all men are uncaring and unloving. If you go through my blog posts, you will see that I have written many posts in support of men. But you should understand that no marriage blog would be complete if I talk totally in favor of men or if I talk totally in favor of women. Both commit many relationship mistakes. So I am very neutral.
Thank you for sharing your opinion. I appreciate it.

By: NiSHA

NiSHA — Mon, 14 Oct 2019 09:52:35 +0000

It is very one sided and you think that men should be like this only but it is the women who should be understanding. I cannot agree even a single bit to your theories because I have seen warm and caring men. Just because some men are really cold and uncaring it doesn’t mean that all those people have their wives as nagging troublemakers. It’s justified to expect husband to be a real partner not just a statue or show piece to show n front of the society. Sorry mam. Your views are so narrow minded. Even men will not agree with you.

By: Mathi

Mathi — Thu, 01 Mar 2018 11:08:14 +0000

In reply to A caring husband.

Hi,
You have got me all wrong. I do not wish to be a spokesperson of women alone. I have written many posts about the hardships men face in a relationship. Women are also culprits in destroying marriage. I only wish both would do their share to make their relationship work. Thank you for sharing your views. It has thrown light into what I should do. I will surely be neutral.

By: A caring husband

A caring husband — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 08:02:41 +0000

Just read through some of your blogs, all of them seems very one-sided, leaning towards the women in the relationship.

While in reality men, in-laws, husbands are genuine, kind hearted, good minded people who has their own views, I do agree there are some real bad eggs, but they are not a majority but perceived to be the majority because of such expressed views by people who are vocal.

Also some one who are on the edge of coming to conclusion of bad judgement will be enforcing because what they read endorses it.

And there are so many women who exploit this, knowingly or unknowingly.

With all due respect, just wanted to give my opinion anonymously (especially intending not to have debate out of it, but to just put forth, this is what others will feel.)

I don’t expect anything to change

Take care, keep writing. Do good.