Hi Lola,
Your husband wants you to look good. But this does not give him any right to body shame you. You are a working woman and it is natural that you are tied up with one work or the other. But you must never let go yourself. You must take care of your appearance, not to please your husband but to make you feel confident. You say that your husband complains about your appearance. Does this mean he is very trim and slim? Most men never look at their appearance. They feel looking good and attractive is the perogative of their wives. This is very wrong. Your husband is also doing the same thing.Tell him frankly that you do not like him body shaming you. At the same time, you should make efforts to reduce your weight. Over weight can lead to many health related problems. When you do regular exercises and follow a good diet you will start losing weight. It will make you feel good and healthy.