Comments on: Tell-tale signs that show your husband has stopped loving you https://www.breezystorm.com/signs-husband-has-stopped-loving-you/ Love forever until death do us part Mon, 01 Aug 2016 04:22:30 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.6.10 By: Mathi https://www.breezystorm.com/signs-husband-has-stopped-loving-you/#comment-7885 Mon, 01 Aug 2016 04:22:30 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4718#comment-7885 In reply to Diya.

Diya,
First my apology for the delay in answering you. You need not accept the girl as the sister of your husband. Your husband has no business in giving priority to the girl over you. You should put your foot down on this. Be very firm in telling your husband that he should sever all his ties with the girl. There is nothing wrong in it. Your husband is blaming you to escape from the wrong he is doing. You say you have teenage children. You should explain to them your point of view. You must be adamant in never tolerating the unreasonable behavior of your husband. You should definitely put yourself first when your husband is misusing you. Talk to the girl and tell her how her relationship with your husband is ruining your marriage.

]]> By: Diya https://www.breezystorm.com/signs-husband-has-stopped-loving-you/#comment-7815 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 06:35:47 +0000 https://www.breezystorm.com/?p=4718#comment-7815 My husband in his mid-forties is in an emotional relationship with his younger female coworker and says he has adopted her as a sister and they give emotional support to each other and she sees him as grand dad, dad, brother etc and has agreed to be daughter to his mom. My mil emotionally and verbally abuses me and my co-sister and we have struggled as spouse expects us to put up with the abuse saying that she is old and will not change. We have 2 teenage boys and are living separately for 1yr now as fights escalated between us and he walked out. All these years, his rules for us was that we don’t get involved with others problems or involve others in our issues. She has married and moved to another job but my spouse is expected to be at her side to comfort her, whenever she is depressed and unmanageable and to calm her down. My husband asked her fiance for permission to be her brother but she said there was no need to ask me as they have bonded and its not physical , hence there is no wrong. she is of the opinion that all needs cant be filled within a marriage and its ok to get needs filled outside marriage by others we bond with. He didn’t ask me as he knew answer is no and he cant break his own rules openly and the only way was to manipulate and corner me to accept her as his adopted sister. He has portrayed me as the unreasonable, jealous and possessive wife to kids , and other family members. I was expected to keep distance from all males in my life. I feel disrespected and treated unfairly. He says he wont give up the relationship for marriage or kids. I am open to reconciling as kids are involved, if he corrects his behavior. But he refuses to talk or meet and blames me for her entry and says he provides for the family and that i should accept the situation. Should i put myself first and continue to protect myself from spouse , his mom and adopted sister or work towards reconciliation for my teens ? How is it possible if there is going to be no change from their side ?

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