You feel alarmed when you experience the tell- tale signs that you will end your relationship.
You are demoralized and agonized when your relationship can go no further.
When you get into a relationship with the person you love, you want it to continue throughout your life.
In the initial stages of your relationship, you think you have found the right person with whom you can spend the rest of your life with. But as days go by, there are many needling happenings in your relationship.
You feel traumatized when nothing seems to be working between you and your spouse. Initially, you feel that all couples experience rough patches in their relationship. And the issues you are facing in your married life, is one such rough patch.
But your relationship issues do not get better. It gets worser and worser, that you feel that your married life is one hell of a mistake you committed.
Shall we have a glimpse at the 5 alarming signs showing that you will end your relationship.
The no 1. Alarming sign showing that you will end your relationship is you do not agree on anything
Of course, it is natural to have differences of opinion in any relationship. But when your differences with your spouse become too much, there are constant arguments between you.
You argue bitterly to prove yourself right and your spouse wrong.
Your arguments are not normal arguments, like what normal couples have. The arguments between you are bitterly fought. It is as though; you want to prove that your spouse is the culprit behind your relationship issues.
You become so antagonized about your spouse, that both utter demeaning words against each other.
And it is sad, that you do not feel regretful for having hurt the person you loved and married.
If this is the scenario of the relationship you have with your spouse, rest assured that the same scenario will continue throughout your married life.
Constant and venomous arguments about everything, is a dangerous signal that your relationship can go no further.
The no 2. Alarming sign showing that you will end your relationship is when you feel uncomfortable
Your marriage does not evoke happiness in you.
Instead, you feel uncomfortable and uneasy about your married life. This is a clear sign that not all is well between you. You feel that your spouse hides many things from you. Many a time, you are confirmed that your spouse is not truthful to you.
When you dream about your future together, you do not feel happy. In fact, you feel that your life might turn torturous to you, if you stay married to him or her.
If you feel so, it is a clear sign that your relationship might end.
The no 3. Alarming sign that you will end your relationship is when your spouse leeches you off your money
Money is an important factor that decides the stability of your marriage. Money has that much of power to make or break your marriage.
When your spouse leeches you off your money, without a dime for yourself, you become bitter and angry.
You understand that you must share your family’s financial commitments. But when you are the only person to be financially responsible, you feel you cannot take it any longer.
When your spouse literally robs your money, under the cover of having rights, you feel used.
And when your spouse does not spend the money leeched from you for the family, but uses it for his or her selfish needs, you feel you cannot tolerate it, any further.
You now feel that your spouse is making use of your love, to fleece you off your money.
As with the modern trend, money is the topmost quality that destroys your relationship.
The no 4. Alarming sign showing that you will end your relationship is when you have nothing in common
Both are so diversified in your values and thoughts, that you often lock horns with your spouse.
You do understand that it is normal for both to have different views and way of doing things.
But when your values are totally different from that of your spouse, you feel uncomfortable and uneasy being married to him or her.
Values are very important to you. When your values clash too much, you bitterly feel that it is time to end your relationship.
The no 5. Alarming sign showing that it is time to end your relationship is when there is too much of abuse
It is normal for your spouse to argue with you. But he or she will not abuse you, when he or she truly loves you.
When there is physical and verbal abuse, all through your married life, you want to end your relationship.
It is sad that your relationship which began with love, should end bitterly. Modern couples do not have the patience to make their marriage work. You would rather end your relationship, than make efforts to stay in your marriage.
CONCLUSION
Did you now understand the warning signals that your relationship would end?
It is easy to end your marriage, but tough to make it work. But when you make your relationship work by adjusting and adapting to your spouse, the happiness it gives you cannot be matched.
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It will clear all your doubts about the issues happening between you and your spouse.
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