Do you know that resilience is a thrilling way to your success?
Are you wondering how?
- In day to day life you face innumerable problems which throws you off balance.
- You are shaken by the uncertainty of your life.
- You are taken aback by the harshness the world reacts towards you.
- The bitter reality of life makes your confidence level dip and plunge into the rock bottom.
It is now you need to be resilient.
Resilience means flexibility, pliability and bounciness- the most needed aspects for your success.
Top ways to practice resilience in life – Thrilling way to your success
‘Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it’s less good than the one you had before.
What does resilience in life really mean?
- It is your ability to bounce back even when the worst calamity happens in your life.
- It is your fighting spirit that comes to foray to battle out your problems.
- It is your never –say- die attitude.
- It is your confidence to handle life in all its harshness.
When you buckle under the pressure of the problems you face in your life you can never acquire success. It is a bitter truth that life is never easy. You undergo many ups and downs in your life journey which sometimes make you feel shattered and battered – emotionally and psychologically.
You stamp yourself as an utter failure. You think you are destined to be a failure and shrivel yourself into a non-entity. This mental attitude makes you a real failure if you are not resilient.
How can you be successful in life if you do not show your fighting spirit?
Do you know it is your resilience which makes you mentally strong and assertive?
Resilience is an emphatic way to your success
‘I never fear my failures. In fact the more I fail, the more aggressive I become’ I looked surprisingly at my cousin.
I knew he had suffered many personal as well as financial loses in his life. But I had never seen him downcast or depressed. He just brushed aside his problems and went on with his life as if nothing had happened.
I knew how disturbed he was by the traumatic experiences he faced in his life. But he never let it faze him.
How did my cousin face the trauma in his life so bravely?
He was just being resilient!
That is the spirit you should have.
This is the right attitude towards life.
Inculcate this approach towards life to achieve incredible success.
Sorrow and loss of your near and dear ones is your personal grief. This world never cares about it. Do not crumble in agony and defeat your life. Life never stops for anyone. So bounce back with a vengeance. You cannot survive if your grief becomes embedded in your mind.
It is very difficult to go on in life forgetting the rebuffs, defeats, failures and disappointments you face in your life. Failures, rejections and rebuffs are actually stepping stones to your future success. Realize that these negative factors are not there to stay in your life. They are just a passing phase.
Persistent failures should make you more assertive and positive and not depressed and negative.
Have you seen a child?
When he is learning to walk he falls down frequently.
But does he stay fallen down?
He immediately gets up and tries again and again. He overcomes his fumbling gait to walk firmly. He fights back smiling and laughing.
Can you see how resilient he is?
How is it possible for a small child be so resilient?
It is because he does not fear anything. He does not know the meaning of failures. He just keeps trying. This is the reason why a child is always cheerful and happy.
This is the mentality you should develop. Bounce back from your failures with renewed energy. This is the only way to success. When you remain where you had fallen down you become stagnant like a gutter. But when you move ahead new doors of opportunities await to take you to success.
Are you wondering how to develop resilience?
Just like happiness resilience is a mindset. You mind should always be active and energetic. Failures should make you think of a new way to do things. Rebuffs should make you firm to show your worth. Rejections should make you more assertive and confident.
Very difficult, isn’t it?
But if you want to succeed in life you have no other go than to bounce back in life.
Life is like a cricket game. Till the last ball your failure is not decided nor is your success denied to you. Play your life game with the aim to win. Never be depressive when you fail. Lots of game are won in the last ball. You too can win if you inculcate resilience in your life.