Do you know that there are astonishing financial changes after your marriage?
Many of you feel that you are depleted of money, only after your marriage.
It is because your financial commitments increase after marrying your spouse. And you are constantly battling to meet both ends meet.
Outwardly, it might seem that your financial status begins its downward decent, after your marriage.
But in reality, the financial changes after your marriage are always for the better.
You might find this report, that the financial changes after your marriage makes you richer, rather surprising.
You always thought, that you were financially better off before your marriage.
It is harsh fact that money plays a great role in stabilizing your married life.
Though money does not in any way contribute towards the happiness of your relationship, you need it for the financial security of your family.
Why is money so powerful, when only love should dominate your relationship?
It is because money decides the mood of your relationship.
You often argue and fight with your spouse, when you do not have money to maintain the lifestyle both crave for.
But when you have surplus money in your kitty, you feel satisfied by your financial status.
And your good financial status, makes you feel much more relaxed and comfortable in your married life.
This money minded society, respects you for what you are worth. So, you need lots of money to maintain a good standard of living in your married life.
You might deny this by saying that you are more concentrated on love, than on money. But the fact remains that you are tensed when there is no enough money for your family.
Does that mean money is more important than love?
Money and love are inter-connected and inter-linked
Love might be the foundation of your relationship, but money is the oxygen of yourmarried life.
You cannot survive without oxygen, can you?
It is true that love decides the stability of your marriage. But your love too will be mauled beyond recognition when there is no money for your basic needs. So, your marriage cannot survive without money.
You argue with your spouse, more about money matters than anything else, don’t you?
When your spouse restricts your spending, and takes on the role of a decision maker of your income, you feel completely lacking and deficient about your financial status.
“I was financially well off before my marriage. I bought whatever caught my fancy and no one questioned me. But after marriage, my spouse literally controls the way I spend my money” you fume to yourself.
Is it true?
Were you really financially well off before your marriage?
And is it true that your financial status has plunged after your marriage?
What exactly is the truth?
Shall we look at your financial status before your marriage?
You never thought twice before spending money for something you fancy. You spent money without thinking about your financial future.
You kept updating your modern gadgets, immaterial of its cost.
You did not save money for your old age.
You bought many things which had transitory value, with your hard-earned money.
Now, shall we look at the financial changes after your marriage?
After your marriage, you think twice before you spend money. You also cut down your personal spending drastically, as you need more money for the financial commitments of your family.
After your marriage, you do not buy anything rashly, nor do you throw away money recklessly.
You are now concentrated on saving money for your family.
You also understand that money means a lot to your family.
Can you see the huge changeover in your money dealings after your marriage?
Only after your marriage, you understand that money is an important commodity you can never think lightly about.
Yes!
After marrying your spouse, you realize your relationship is a very responsible commitment. And you are taken aback by the many financial commitments in your family life, which you never thought existed.
You need money for the future financial security of your family.
You need money to give the best education to your children.
You need money to maintain a good standard of living.
You need money to make your relationship tension free.
And last but not the least, you need money for the success of your marriage.
It is true, that there are times you long for your carefree days before your marriage, when you spent recklessly without a worry in your mind.
And it is a fact, that you are frustrated and irritated when your spouse frowns at you in disapproval, when you spend on something you longed for.
It is true that before your marriage, you had better spending capacity for your individual wishes. But it is only after your marriage, you know the art of spending money on things that gives you great social status.
But there are lots of social status changes in your life, only after your marriage.
Before marriage, you dare not invest your money in a home, as you feared the repayments will eat into your budget and you will have to struggle for your day-to-day expenses.
But after marriage, you immediately plan a home as you have the income of your spouse as a safe back up.
Your combined income helps you to furnish your home with classic furniture.
After marriage, you can afford to plan yearly vacations for your family.
And in extreme cases, you have the backup of the income of your spouse to help you through your bad times, if at all you lose your job.
Your income doubles after your marriage, as the earnings of your spouse adds up to your income.
After your marriage, the combined income of you and your spouse gives you many more advantages.
You can afford to buy the best things available in the world market.
After marriage, your spouse gives you intelligent advice about the ways to deal with your hard-earned money. Only after your marriage, you understand the importance of your family’s financial future.
And in your newly found responsibility, you spend and invest wisely
Before marriage, you never discussed your financial investments and money dealings with anyone as you were your own master.
But after marriage, your spouse gives you intelligent ideas to invest your hard-earned money.
You never knew the art of savings, before marriage. After marriage, you save money at the insistence of your spouse.
Before your marriage, you squandered your money around as you had no responsibilities.
But after your marriage, you think twice before you spend.
Can you see how much your outlook towards money changes after marriage?
And for the good too!
The combined income of both is a powerful tool to improve your lifestyle as you wish it to be.
You can afford more status symbols only after marriage as the combined income of your spouse makes you opt for the best.
Do you still have doubts about the financial changes after your marriage?
I am sure, all your doubts about your financial status after your marriage, has been clarified.
Money will elude you, when you do not know how to manage it. Before marriage, you were the sole master of your earnings and you did not know how to manage it.
But after marriage, you take wiser decisions. Both of you work hard for the betterment of your family.
The combined monetary responsibility you share with your spouse, makes you financially well off only after your marriage.
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