Though you love your wife intensely you never make it open and transparent, do you?
This is where you go wrong.
Sadly, you keep her in all darkness about your love for her.
Your poor wife often gropes in uncertainty whether you truly value and love her.
Grave male mistake.
Is it very difficult to display how much you love your wife?
It is very simple provided you understand one important quality of your wife.
As a woman your wife is basically very emotional. So, she wants you to show your love in a very open way. In fact she yearns for it.
This is the reason why you should never lock your love within yourself and make your wife feel lost, used and uncared.
Here are the top 5 ways to show how much you love your wife.
1. Appreciate her contribution for the family
Your wife works hard and relentlessly for the welfare of the family. Without her you have to struggle to maintain your family.
But, you take for granted that it is her duty to look after the family. You coolly sit back to enjoy the comfort she gives you.
Though your wife does her duty without prompting, her inner mind craves for small words of appreciation to make her feel you love her.
When you callously ignore her dedicated contribution towards the family, she crumbles inside in disappointment.
‘You are my shock absorber’ my husband often used to tell me. It was the best compliment I received from him.
It made me realize that he knew my worth and appreciated it. If my husband had kept it within himself I would have never known that he depended on me for his emotional security.
Do you know your love means the world to your wife?
- Say how much you love your wife.
- Utter appreciative words to show that you value her care and dedication towards the family.
- It makes her feel so belonged to you.
Do not overlook this intricate part of your relationship and make your wife feel used.
2. Protect and support her in any situation.
There are times when your family deliberately sets out to demean your wife.
What do you do when your family passes snide remarks about her?
Do you join the foray and make her feel hurt?
This is the worst possible hurt you can inflict on her. Your wife feels you do not love her enough to protect her.
When someone insults her, the insult and shame is for you too. Step forward spontaneously to support your wife.
In fact, your love for her should be so strong that your family feels apprehensive to insult and demean her.
This is yet another emphatic way to the love for your wife.
When you support her unconditionally she becomes totally infatuated by you.
3. Give her the much-needed rest
Do you know that your wife is overworked?
Do not ignore it and make her slog. When you laze around while she slaves it out, she feels mentally and physically tired.
While she is busy in the kitchen you can take care of the children. She looks lovingly at you.
Share her household chores with cheer.
Never do it with a frown. Your wife hates it.
Do it voluntarily and with a smile.
Your wife feels sheltered and cared by you.
4. Be chivalrous
Do you think chivalry is outmoded and out of fashion?
You never fail to impress your wife when you are well-mannered with her.
When you do not abuse her physically and verbally she feels loved by you.
Are you walking in a crowd?
Your protective arms around her in the crowd makes her look lovingly at you.
Do you ever open the car door for your wife?
Your wife loves it.
Appreciate her when she looks good. Your wife never outgrows it.
She adores you when you maintain direct eye contact with her.
Never talk to her with one eye focused on the TV or newspaper.
Your wife does not like it.
Simple wifely needs, isn’t it?
5. Show open demonstration of love.
This is the most wanted aspect your wife needs from you.
Small physical gestures show how much you love your wife. Do not think less about these physical gestures. It makes a world of changes in your relationship.
- She adores you when you smile at her often.
- She likes you when you cuddle her up to you.
- She is in cloud nine when you give an affectionate kiss.
- She likes it when you pat her cheeks.
- She thinks you are the best husband when you remember her birthdays and wedding anniversary and make it a special day for her.
- She becomes crazy about you when you appreciate her looks.
Don’t make your wife crave for your love. Never keep her in darkness whether you love her or not. The resentment your wife feels makes your family life a war zone.
Make your home your comfort zone by just demonstrating that you love your wife.