Understanding husband is a dream of every woman. But mostly it remains a pipe dream for her.
Why are you unable to live up to the expectation of your wife?
It is because you always see her from your male point of view.
Your male world is very practical and pragmatic. The womanly world of your wife is very sensitive and emotional.
Your wife feels completely uncared and unloved when you treat her with male practicality.
It is indeed sad that you turn a blind eye to many sensitive aspects of your wife.
Do you really want your wife to feel loved and cared?
Top 10 easy tips to be an understanding husband –Shed your practicality
1. Appreciate her looks
Is your wife looking beautiful and gorgeous?
Do you feel enamored by her beauty?
It is no use admiring your wife in your mind and not expressing it in words.
Your wife longs for appreciation from you.
‘You look ravishing honey’- simple words. But means a lot to your wife. You transfer her into cloud nine.
2. Compliment her cooking
You complain that your wife does not make any effort to cook food you crave for.
But have you ever complimented her when she cooks your favorite dish?
You have your stomach full while your poor wife waits for a word of appreciation from you.
‘I loved it’ yet again simple words. But enough to make your wife feel fulfilled and content.
3. Be a great listener
Your wife wants to share her feelings with you. As a woman she talks to you in a detailed manner. But as a man you want it short and sweet.
You lose interest in her eager interaction as you feel it is about a silly and innocuous problem. You only half listen to her with your attention focused elsewhere. You inflict intense hurt in her by turning a deaf ear to her interaction.
Be a great listener. Make direct eye contact with her. Make your wife feel she has your total attention. She loves it.
4. Never degrade her appearance
Your wife is very sensitive about her appearance. When you make derogatory comments about her figure plump appearance she feels bad and resentful.
Never pass hurting comments about the physical appearance of your wife. Accept her for what she is. As an understanding husband notice her other good qualities.
It boosts up the morale of your wife.
5. Acknowledge her presence
When you are among your friends\relatives you tend to forget her presence.
When your wife does not know them she feels lonely and left out. Introduce your wife to them.
Whomever you are with, do not lose eye contact with your wife. Your special look conveys volumes of love to her.
6. Your wife adore pet name
Have a distinctive pet name for her. Call her by that name. It makes your wife feel special.
Darling, honey or sweet heart are generic.
The pet name you have for her should only imply her. Your wife feels very loved when you call her by her unique pet name.
7. Say ‘I love you often’
When was the last time you told her ‘I love you’?
You might have grown tired of uttering those words.
But your wife will never outgrow it. Say those words to make her feel the warmth of your love.
8. Apologize for the hurt inflicted
Do you act as though nothing happened after saying some harsh words to her?
Your wife feels emotionally shattered.
You feel that your wife should forget your angry words as a meaningless flash of anger. But your wife as a woman will always be emotional. She just needs reassuring words that you feel sorry for what you said.
If you are an understanding husband you will utter the magic words ‘I am sorry’ to quell any resentment your wife might have felt.
9. Share her household chores
Do you feel household chores are your wife’s duty?
Do you do not make any efforts to share her work?
Your wife also works as hard as you. She too has work related tension.
She too feels fatigued. So share her household chores. Do it without her asking for it.
You have a loving wife looking adoringly at you for being an understanding husband.
10. Take her out
Take her for outing. Make her feel that you enjoy being with her. Buy her things she had longed for. Your wife loves such surprise gifts.
Never forget her birthdays or wedding anniversary. Make it a special day for her. Your wife feels you are a perfect husband.
Never dwell in man’s world and feel satisfied that you love your wife. Make your wife understand your love. Be an understanding husband. Your wife places in a pedestal to give more and more of her love.