Though you love your wife intensely, you never make it open and transparent, do you?
This is where you go wrong.
Do you know your wife literally craves for your display of love?
Sadly, you keep her in all darkness about your love for her.
Your poor wife often gropes in uncertainty whether you truly value and love her.
This is a grave relationship blunder you are committing.
When you want your wife to love and respect you, it is surprising that you do not understand her emotional needs.
Most of you feel that your wife should understand your love without you displaying it.
This is yet another relationship blunder you keep on committing.
Do you feel that it is very difficult to display how much you love your wife?
No.
It is very simple, provided you understand one important quality of your wife.
As a woman, your wife is basically very emotional. So, she wants you to show your love, openly, frankly and overwhelmingly.
In fact, your wife literally yearns for your open display of love.
The least thing you can do for your wife, is to show her that you love her. Never ever lock your love within you and make your wife feel lost, used and uncared.
Here are the top 5 ways to show how much you love your wife.
1. Appreciate the contribution of your wife for your family
Your wife works hard and relentlessly for the welfare of your family. Without her, you will be struggling to look after your family.
But, you take it for granted that it is the duty of your wife to look after you and your children. So, you coolly sit back to enjoy the comfort she gives you.
Though your wife does her duty without any prompting from you, she craves for small words of appreciation from you. Your appreciation makes your wife feel loved and treasured by you.
But you never understand this small emotional need of your wife. You coolly forget to appreciate your wife. Your poor wife feels disappointed that you are overlooking her.
“You are my shock absorber” my husband often told me me. It was the best compliment I received from him.
It made me realize that my husband understood my contribution towards my family and appreciated it. If my husband had kept his appreciation hidden, I would have never known that he depended on me for his emotional security.
Do you know your love means the world to your wife?
And it is not difficult to make your wife feel loved.
- Convey that you love your wife by constantly uttering the magic words “I love you.”
- Utter appreciative words to show that you value her care and dedication towards the family.
- It makes your wife feel that she is cherished and treasured by you.
Appreciation is the simplest of simple tricks to make your wife feel completely loved by you.
2. Protect and support your wife in any situation.
There are times when your family deliberately sets out to demean your wife.
Your wife is angry and frustrated when her upbringing is questioned by your family. Naturally your wife looks upon you to support and protect her.
But often you do not support your wife. You ignore your parents insulting your wife, making her feel lonely and alone.
Not supporting your wife is the worst possible hurt you can inflict on her. Your wife feels you do not love her enough to protect her.
When someone insults your wife, the insult and shame is for you too.
You should never let anyone, be it your family\parents to degrade your wife in any way. So, step forward to support your wife spontaneously, without her having to beg for it.
In fact, your support for your wife should be so strong that your family feels apprehensive to insult and demean her.
Being protective is yet another emphatic way to show your love for your wife.
When you support your wife unconditionally, she becomes totally infatuated by you.
3. Give your wife the much-needed rest
Do you know that your wife is overworked?
Do not ignore it and make her slog for long lonely hours. When you laze around while she slaves it out, she feels mentally and physically tired.
Understand the simple fact that your wife is not a robot who can do all the household chores, non-stop.
So, step in to help your wife.
While your wife is busy in the kitchen, you can take care of the children. She smply loves you for it.
Share the household chores of your wife willingly.
Never help your wife with a frown. She hates it.
Help her voluntarily and with a smile.
Your wife feels sheltered and cared by you.
4. Be chivalrous
Do you think chivalry is outmoded and out of fashion in married life?
No.
You never fail to impress your wife when you are well-mannered with her.
When you do not abuse your wife physically and verbally, she feels loved by you.
Are you walking in a crowd?
Your protective arms around your wife in the crowd makes her look lovingly at you.
Do you open the car door for your wife?
Your wife loves it.
Appreciate your wife when she looks good. She never outgrows it.
Your wife adores you when you maintain direct eye contact with her.
Never talk to your wife with one eye focused on the TV or newspaper.
Your wife does not like it.
Simple wifely needs, isn’t it?
Fulfill it.
5. Demonstrate your love for your wife openly
Not being demonstrative about your love is yet another unfullfilled craving your wife has about you.
Your wife wants you to demonstrate your love through cute physical gestures.
Small physical gestures show how much you love your wife.
But most of you do not understand that your physical display of love, brings a world of magical changes in your relationship.
- Your wife adores you when you smile at her often.
- She likes you when you cuddle her up to you.
- Your wife is in cloud nine when you give an affectionate kiss, without sexual intent.
- She likes it when you pat her cheeks.
- Your wife thinks you are the best husband when you remember her birthdays and wedding anniversary and make it a special day for her.
- She becomes crazy about you when you appreciate her looks.
Conclusion
“Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love.” – Leo Buscaglia
Do not make your wife feel lost by not displaying your love. When you keep your wife in darkness whether you love her or not, she is emotionally shattered.
You can easily make your home your comfort zone by just demonstrating about the intensity of your love for your wife.
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