Disappointing sex life of a wife, makes her feel emotionally devastated and demolished.
When the sexual life of a wife, is selfishly handled by her husband, she does not derive any happiness from it. Sex is a sensitive topic, even in this modern age. So, wife buries her disappointments about it within herself.
You might wonder, how unsatisfying sex life could make a wife feel emotionally crushed and disappointed. You might feel, that sex is just a physical act of satisfying your lust. You might also think that only love between couples matters, and that sex is a not an issue to be worried about.
You are wrong, if you feel so.
In marriage, sex is not just a physical act of lovemaking. It is more of a binding agent, which binds couples with more love. When couples enjoy good sex life, they also enjoy a good marriage. It is always assumed that only men are physical animals, who cannot do without sex. Women are assumed to be more concentrated on love, than on being sexually active with their husbands.
This thought itself is plain injustice to a wife.
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Wife is as human as her husband. She too likes the pleasure, sex with her husband gives her. When husband understands his wife’s physical needs, and gives her sexual pleasure according to her preference she feels emotionally fulfilled.
Yes!
Initial reasons behind disappointing sex life of a wife
Good sex life with her husband, is actually an emotional fulfillment for a wife. A husband can be sexually aroused, as soon as his body demands it. The sexual urge of the husband does not need emotional arousal. Husband is ready for sex, the moment he wants it. He derives his sexual pleasure, just by making love to his wife.
But this is not the case with a wife. She is not built to feel sexually aroused, by the demands of her body. Her sexual instinct must be kindled by her husband’s emotional display of love. Wife feels sexually stirred, only when her husband emotionally stirs her. Wife likes to be physically intimate with her husband, only when she is emotionally ready. Emotional fulfillment before sexual fulfillment, is the way a wife wants her sex life with her husband to be.
But mostly a wife is disappointed, as her husband does not make her feel emotionally moved, before being physically intimate with her. Husband also does not make his wife feel desirable, before getting into bed with her. He has hurried sex, as he hurriedly plunders the body of his wife for his physical pleasure. After fulfilling his physical hunger, husband turns over to sleep.
It is sad, that husband does not know his wife is highly disappointed by his hurried sexual act. Husband had fulfilled his lust, even before his wife was ready for it. Wife often feels utterly disappointed, with the physical intimacy she has with her husband.
More reasons behind disappointing sex life of a wife
Wife always wants her husband, to be slow and patient. She dreamily wishes her husband to make her feel desirable and attractive, even before initiating physical intimacy with her. Wife wants her husband to appreciate her beauty. She wants him to talk about his love for her, all through the day to gradually get her into the mood for physical intimacy.
Husband should understand, that his wife is an emotional animal. She attaches emotional importance in everything about her relationship with him. Wife loves her husband as her world. She is selfless in making him comfortable. Husband also loves it, when his wife is caring and loving, as it makes his married life feel comfortable and relaxing.
Husband further adores his wife, when she willingly fulfills his lust, as and when he demands it. In his selfishness about his own pleasure, husband fails to understand that his wife will also have her own preferences about sex.
When a husband fulfills his wife’s emotional angle in sex, she feels absolutely fulfilled and content living with him. You might wonder how sex can make a wife feel fulfilled in her married life, when love should be deciding factor behind her marital bliss.
Very true.
Here are some romantic tricks for husband, to make the wife feel sexually thrilled and fulfilled.
- You must understand that your wife likes it, when physical intimacy is emotionally initiated by you and patiently enacted.
- You must make your wife prepared for physical intimacy, way before it actually happens.
- You must constantly look at your wife, with mischievous glint in your eyes.
- The romantic message in your eyes must make your wife feel, that you find her desirable to you.
- You must constantly touch your wife, with affection and without sexual intent. This trick works great in getting your wife ready for exciting physical intimacy between you.
- You must give secret signals to your wife, even when you are with your children, so that she feels emotionally aroused towards you.
- Before your physical intimacy, you must have a refreshing bath, so that you smell fresh to her.
- After your children are asleep, talk with your wife in a low tone.
- Keep touching her gently.
- Whisper in her ears, that she looks beautiful. This act never fails to get the desired results.
- Look directly into the eyes of your wife.
- Your eyes should show that you want her.
When you display such romantic gestures to your wife, she is now ready to give you intense pleasure. Your lovemaking should be patient, before gradually building the momentum. When your sexual act is gentle and long lasting to your wife, her body feels refreshed and fulfilled.
After your physical intimacy, gently kiss your wife to show her how much you enjoyed your love making. This is one final act your wife dreams of having, but never gets to experience.
Conclusion
When you make your wife emotionally ready for physical intimacy with you, the pleasure she gives you makes you feel exhilarated. On the other hand, when you impatiently fulfill your pleasure, you leave your wife unsatisfied and disappointed. Being selfish in the physical aspect of your marriage, will do your relationship no good. On the contrary, understanding the physical needs of your wife means a lot to your marriage.
When you give your wife true physical pleasure, it makes her happy and emotionally stirred. A happy wife is always equal to a happy marriage. The sooner you realize, that your wife also has her own preferences towards the physical angle of your relationship, the better your relationship with her will be.
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