Do you know certain habits of yours completely turns off husband?
I am sure you never even know about it. Though your husband does not talk openly about it, he does feel turned off by you in many ways.
“Why should my husband feel turned off by my behavior?” – You are bewildered, aren’t you?
The reason is very simple.
The mentality of your husband is entirely different from yours.
It is your womanly world vs his manly world.
Here are the top 6 things which turns off husband without you really knowing about it.
1. Nagging – It turns off husband in a big way
Your husband hates nagging. But you cannot stop it.
Why do you nag your husband?
- You feel your husband is often callous and selfish in his attitude.
- You do not like his self -centered nature.
- You hate his bone laziness.
- You are frustrated by his absent-mindedness.
This makes you wild with anger against him. So, you nag him about his aloof attitude. You nag him that he is irresponsible. You nag about his uncleanliness. You nag him for strewing things around.
You start nagging your husband from the morning to the night.
Your fuming husband feels completely turned off by you.
2. Bad hygiene – A grave mistake which turns off husband.
Your husband is mostly shabby and grimy at home, isn’t he?
But he wants you to be neat and presentable before him.
But looking after the family drains you. You do not have the energy to make yourself well-groomed at home.
“He is my husband. He will understand my fatigue.”
So you take certain rights from your husband.
- You smell like a kitchen when you are with him.
- You are dressed in an old and ill-fitting dress.
- You are sticky and sweaty.
- Your hair is disarrayed.
Yuk.
You no longer excite your husband. He is revolted by your unkempt appearance.
Turns off husband, you know.
3. Calling him pet names in public turns off husband
As a woman, you want to publicly demonstrate your love for your husband.
You have a pet name for him and it is very special to you.
Your husband adores you when you call him by his pet name at home.
But he feels turned off when you call him by his pet name in public.
Takes off his manliness, he feels.
Open public display of your love does not go well with him.
4. Too much make up turns off husband
Are you too fashion conscious?
Do you deck yourself like a model with loads of makeup?
Your husband does not like it.
Too much lipstick is a big no with him. Too much show of your skin makes him feel repulsed.
Your husband wants you to be a natural beauty. When you are unobtrusively beautiful, he feels attracted to you. Too much show of cleavage and thighs does not go well with your husband.
5. Gossiping is yet another big turn off
You like talking about your relatives. You want to share all your family gossips with your husband.
But your husband need not be interested in your relatives. In fact, your husband feels bored to death when you gossip about them, as he knows nothing about them.
He does not openly confess about his boredom, as he does not want to offend you. But he mentally shuts his ears so that your blah-blah gossip does not bother him.
6. Laziness turns husband off
Your husband might be bone lazy, but he expects you be very brisk and active.
When you are lazy and sluggish, he does not like it. When you keep your house like a pig sty, your husband hates it.
The biggest turn off for your husband is your laziness. He likes it when you are agile and energetic.
CONCLUSION
Your husband looks at you from his male point of view. In exact contrast to your womanly world. Convert his turn-off feeling against you, into turn-on feelings towards you, by behaving as your husband wants you to behave.
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