Do you know when you demonstrate love for your spouse, you make him\her feel completely overwhelmed with happiness?
But it is sad that you demonstrate your love for your spouse only during your dating days.
- During your dating days, you were totally concentrated on being a perfect lover.
- You appreciated your spouse so much so that he\she felt flattered.
- You showed your care by being supportive and protective towards him\her.
- You displayed your love by demonstrating it in no uncertain terms.
But after your marriage, you somehow feel that you need not demonstrate love for your spouse. It is not that you have ceased to love your spouse.
You do love your spouse deeply. But you feel your spouse should understand your love without you having to demonstrate it.
You are wrong in feeling so.
You can enjoy your relationship only when you display your love without your spouse having all sorts of doubt about it.
Here are simple tricks to demonstrate love for your spouse
1. Appreciate your spouse
Your spouse adores you when you appreciate him\her. Appreciation is a simple trick to show your spouse that you are not taking him\her for granted.
Most of you feel appreciating your spouse is not needed. And that your spouse is childish in expecting appreciation for doing his\her duty.
You are wrong.
You feel wasted in your job when there is no appreciation for your work, don’t you?
Likewise, your spouse also expects to be appreciated.
- Appreciate the good looks of your spouse.
- Appreciate his\her ability to succeed.
- Appreciate your spouse for his\her relentless contribution towards your family.
Appreciating your spouse does not cost you a dime. But the goodness it gives your relationship is worth the try.
2. Use cute physical gestures
When you demonstrate love for your spouse through cute physical gestures, he\she adores you.
Physical touch is a huge relationship builder. It signals your love in no uncertain terms to your spouse.
- Hug your spouse often.
- Snuggle him\her up to you when he\she sits beside you.
- Ruffle the hair of your spouse.
- Kiss him\her without sexual intent.
- Hold hands when going for a walk.
Such physical gestures speak your love louder than your words.
3. Use love words
Words is a powerful tool to demonstrate your love for your spouse.
Most of you interact with your spouse routinely. You only talk about important family issues.
It is sad you do not utter beautiful words of love while interacting with your spouse?
- “I love you.”
- “I do not know what I would do without you.”
- “You are the best thing that happened to my life.”
- “I miss you.”
- “You make my day.”
- “Don’t worry. I am here for you.”
- “Everything is going to be fine.”
Such loving and demonstrative words literally transform your marriage into a haven of happiness.
4. Be supportive
When your spouse is feeling downcast, do not let it slip your notice.
Convey your emotional support to your spouse in no uncertain terms.
Do you know it cements your relationship firmly and surely?
- Pacify your spouse with consoling words.
- Ask him\her about his\her problems.
- Pay keen attention to what your spouse has to say.
- Give your spouse emotional protection by conveying the message that he\she is not alone. And that you will always support him\her.
Emotional support is a must for the longevity of your marriage.
5. Enjoy quality time together
Most of you think that living in the same house is the only togetherness in married life.
No!
You are wrong.
Being physically present is just not enough. You should spend quality time with your spouse.
- Keep on communicating with your spouse.
- Talk about your day in your workplace.
- Tease each other in fun.
- Go for long walks.
- Share hobbies.
- Do exercises together.
- Play with your children.
Keep your mobile\laptop away from you and concentrate on interacting with your spouse.
It will do your marriage good.
6. Make your spouse feel his\her importance
Do you know your spouse often doubts whether he\she means anything to you?
It is because you become too detached and aloof from your spouse as years go by.
Do not do it.
- Make your spouse realize that he\she means the world to you.
- Be supportive and protective towards him\her.
- Be loyal and faithful in your relationship.
- Do not interact too closely with the opposite sex. Your spouse does not like it a wee bit.
Do not shirk from conveying the clear cut message that your world exists around your spouse.
7. Plan a date
Your day-to-day life is hectic and hurried. You are literally drained and sapped of your energy.
In your tiredness and exhaustion, you do not have the mental attitude or the physical energy to make your relationship glow with love.
Do not let this attitude make destructive inroads into your relationship.
- Plan a date for the just the two of you.
- Do not talk about hot topics during your date.
- Your parents can take care of your children. They adore to be with their grandparents.
Your anticipation of your day together makes the wait all the more romantic.
8. Buy surprising gifts
Most of you cease to buy gifts for your spouse after your marriage.
You fail to realize that when you gift your spouse, it conveys the message that you keep on remembering him\her.
- Do not overlook the birthday of your spouse. Make it a special day.
- Buy the favorite food of your spouse on the way home.
- Buy things that your spouse had craved for as a pleasant surprise.
Gifting is a simple way to demonstrate your love.
9. Listen and agree
Most of you never have the patience to listen to your spouse as you feel he\she is making much ado about nothing. In the bargain you never understand the hurt your spouse feels.
You also want your idea to be the final verdict as you feel you know better than your spouse.
These are all unthinking relationship blunders. Avoid it at any cost.
- Do not feel egoistic to agree to the suggestions of your spouse.
- Whenever your spouse comes to share his\her thoughts with you, give full attention to it.
- Show your interest in the interaction your spouse is having with you.
10. Share your innermost feelings
You do not share your innermost feelings with everyone. You share it only with a person you trust. Let that person be your spouse.
Do not hide your feelings from your spouse. If you do so, he\she never knows what you are thinking. This creates rift between you.
- Share your happiness with your spouse.
- Share your problems with him\her.
- Share your future plans with your spouse.
You should know the emotions of your spouse and he\she should know your feelings.
This is a simple trick that creates great emotional connectivity between you.
Conclusion
“You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching, Love like you’ll never be hurt, Sing like there’s nobody listening, And live like it’s heaven on earth.” ― William W. Purkey
Unless you make your spouse feel your love, you cannot enjoy your married life.
Loving your spouse without displaying it to him\her is a grave relationship blunder.
When you make your spouse feel your love, it takes your relationship to a new height of fulfillment and contentment.
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