Do you know there are certain womanly traits your husband likes in you?
Yes!
Your husband seeks certain traits in you to make him feel that he has married the best woman in the world.
But often you never know about it.
Do you know this makes your husband feel emotionally lost?
As a man, your husband has an entirely different mentality from that of yours. Though your husband is physically stronger than you, he is mentally weaker than you.
Your husband is totally dependent on you for his stability. So, when you are emotionally supportive, your husband derives his strength from it.
But when you behave in a way your husband dislikes, he crumbles within himself in agony and frustration.
He wants you to be the woman he dreams of.
Are you wondering about the womanly traits your husband likes in you?
Here are the top 10 list.
1. Your husband likes it when you agree to his ideas
As a woman you feel you know the best for your family. And it is quite true.
You have the uncanny intelligence of knowing what is good for your family. But your husband also has his own views about certain family issues.
So, he too suggests certain solutions for the problems that crop up in your family.
But sadly, you never consider any suggestions of your husband as you feel it is not good enough.
You snub your husband saying that he knows nothing about family problems. This is enough to make your husband feel overlooked and ignored.
Instead, when you listen and agree to the suggestions of your husband, he feels that you value him.
Can you see that the top of the womanly traits your husband likes in you is listening to him?
2. Your husband adores you when you cook his favorite dishes
Your husband is a slave to his taste buds.
The often-quoted fact that you can love your husband through his stomach is very true.
This is the reason your husband feels unloved by you when you cook him an uninteresting meal.
But when you serve your husband his favorite dish, he is excited like a school boy. He feels that you are a loving wife.
3. Your husband wants respect from you
Do you know yet another of the womanly traits your husband likes in you is respect?
As a modern woman, you demand equal rights in your relationship.
Quite rightfully so.
But however modern the world might have become, the needs of your husband remains the same.
He wants respect from you. This does not mean he wants you to behave servile with him. He knows he cannot expect you to be slavish like in the olden days.
But your husband wants the respect due to him from you.
He hates it when you degrade him before his friends\relatives.
Your husband hates you comparing him with others.
He wants to be heard.
Your husband wants to be respected for what he is.
This is the sort of respect your husband expects from you.
4. Your husband loves a wee bit of service from you
Yes.
Your husband loves it when you do him service.
This does not mean he wants you to be at his beck and call.
Do you pay attention to your husband when he is home?
He loves it.
Do you keep his toiletries when he goes to have his bath?
Your husband adores it.
Do you switch on the fan as soon as your husband enters your home dead tried from a hectic day of work?
Your husband loves it.
These sort of simple care towards the needs of your husband makes him feel that you consider him very important to you.
5.Your husband wants you to allow him to laze around
As a man your husband is basically lazy.
He likes to laze around the house doing nothing.
Selfish of your husband, isn’t it?
But this is how your husband is made like. His male mentality is pure laziness.
It is because your husband feels that you are more than capable of looking after your family.
He wants to slouch before the TV for his favorite sports.
He wants to be idle at home.
When you do not nag your husband for his laziness, it is one of the top womanly traits your husband likes in you.
6. He wants your trust
Your husband wants you to trust him.
He wants you to trust his ability to succeed. He wants you to be proud of his tiniest success.
Your husband wants you to be supportive towards his endeavors to succeed.
But mostly you are not satisfied with the success ratio of your husband. You degrade his ability to be as successful as his friends\colleagues.
When you degrade your husband’s capacity, he feels his confidence take a beating.
“You are very capable” he wants to hear more such words from you.
“I know you would do it” words he adores to hear from you.
Can you see how much your husband craves for your trust in his ability?
7. Your husband wants you to be presentable
Most of you look very presentable when going to work. But at home, you roam about looking shabby and disheveled.
Your husband hates it.
He loves it when you look attractive and presentable at home.
Your husband hates it when you look grubby and shabby.
Understand the simple fact that your husband as a man is a visual animal.
8. Your husband wants your emotional support
As a man, your husband is emotionally very vulnerable.
His show of manliness is just his outer façade.
But in reality, your husband does not have the capacity to handle family problems. He easily chips under the pressures he faces in his life. In fact, your husband relies on you totally for emotional support.
When you are emotionally supportive when your husband is feeling down and out, he derives succor from you.
9.He wants you to be feminine
Do you think being feminine means being a slave to your husband?
No!
You are wrong.
You like it when your husband is masculine and manly, isn’t it?
You wouldn’t like it if he was meek and spineless.
It is the same with your husband.
He likes you to be feminine.
He hates it when you talk with your voice raising to its top volume.
Your husband hates it when you behave like a tomboy.
Your husband wants you to be soft spoken and kind.
10. Your husband too wants hugs and kisses
You like it when your husband gives you a sudden hug or a kiss, do you not?
Just like you, your husband too wants unexpected kisses and hugs.
He likes it when you ruffle his hair affectionately.
Your husband feels loved when you kiss him with love.
He is excited when you give him an affectionate hug.
Your husband might seem manly in his appearance, but within himself lurks a small boy who needs such open show of love.
Conclusion
“Nothing is respectfully amazing than a man who finds no shame to tell the world how grateful he is for all the love and sacrifices his woman made.” -Himmilicious
Are the womanly traits your husband likes in you very difficult to cultivate?
These are simple traits which you can easily cultivate. The resultant love you get from your husband makes you his queen.
This is what you dream of, don’t you?
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