Certain irritating habits of husband literally makes his wife a nervous wreck. But sadly, husband continues to irritate his wife, as he is not aware of his blunders.
Husband thinks, that he is perfect and loving, when he earns for his family. Of course earning for his family is his essential duty, but he has many other relationship duties to be fulfilled by him, if he must make his wife happy.
What exactly are the irritating habits husband displays in his married life?
No 1. Irritating habits of husband -Being bone lazy
You often think, that it is the duty of your wife to look after you and your family. You do not share your family duties along with your wife, as you feel that it is not your business. You do not lift your fingers to look after your children.
You plump yourself before the TV, while your wife is toiling non-stop with her continuous household duties. Though your wife might not saying it in words, she inwardly fumes at your irresponsible behavior. You must understand that you are an equal partner in family duties, just like your wife.
- Assist your wife in looking after your children.
- Help your wife in the kitchen.
- Help your wife in cleaning your house.
When you are with your wife in her sweat and toil, she loves you for it.
No 2. Irritating habits of husband – Making deriding comments about her before others
You find many qualities of your wife disliking to you, but you dare not make any comments about it as you know you will get a severe tongue lashing from her. But you are not done with your wife, and keep waiting for a chance to tell her what you have in mind about her.
You take upon the visit from your relative\friend\colleague as an excellent chance to vent all your frustrations about her. You make fun of her cooking, and mockingly say, how much you adjust to her unpalatable dishes.
You have nasty comments about your wife’s way of doing things. You gather strength from the fact that your wife cannot retaliate back to you before others. You are doing it all wrong. You must understand that when you degrade your wife, you are in fact degrading yourself.
- Have some appreciative words about your wife. When you do so, you will reap the rich benefits of her intense love for you.
No 3. Irritating habits of husband – Ogling at other women
Your wife might look beautiful, but you scarcely appreciate her looks or appearance. But your whole attitude changes, when you see other beautiful women. You literally ogle at them right in front of your wife, making her fume and fret at your audacity.
You must understand that your flirting attitude irritates your wife no end.
- Appreciate the beauty of your wife, as it makes her feel completely loved by you.
No 4. Irritating habits of husband – Giving preference to friends
Your friends become a huge headache to your wife, when you allow them to take up your family time. When your friends arrange any outing, you are the first to say yes. But when your wife wants you to take her out, you reel out lame excuses about your work\ tiredness. Your wife senses your indifference to take her out, and hoards resentment against your friends for stealing you away from her.
- Your friends do not decide the happiness quotient of your life, but your wife does. So, spend quality time with her.
- Take your wife out, as she adores the feeling of she dining with you.
No 5. Irritating habits of husband – Not understanding the physical needs of his wife
You feel that you are entitled to be physically satisfied by your wife, as when you feel like it. But you scarcely understand, that your wife also wants to be physically satisfied by you. You often ignore your wife’s yearning for sex, when you are not in a mood for it.
You have hurried sex with your wife, making her feel completely dissatisfied by your lovemaking. You must understand that sex to you is a physical need, but to your wife, it is an emotional need.
- Make your lovemaking emotionally satisfying to her.
- When you understand the sexual needs of your wife, it reflects in the intense love she displays towards you.
CONCLUSION
Can you now understand how callous and insensitive you have been towards your wife?
It is small things that give intense pleasure in your married life. Your wife is an emotional being, and when you cater to it, the resultant pleasure she gives you makes your married life, exhilarating and exciting.
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