A passionate husband is every wife’s dream. But sadly, this dream of a wife remains a pipe dream, to this date.
It is because, you do not understand the emotional needs of your wife. As a man, you are driven by multiple passions. You are passionate about cars, latest smart phones, sports and movies. You are so passionate about these modern technologies, that your interest in them is on the rise, and does not decline.
Can you say, that you show the same passion towards your wife?
No.
Though you love your wife, you do not display it in a manner which makes her realize it. You are eager about your passion towards materialistic things, but show negligible interest in your wife. Your deadpan attitude towards your wife, makes her have all sort of doubts about your love towards her.
Do you know the dream of your wife?
It is to be passionately loved by you. It is because, when you are passionate towards your wife, you time and again show her that she means the world to you. You demonstrate your love in such a telling manner, that your wife feels cherished and treasured by you.
Most of you think, that being passionate always relates to physical intimacy. No one can underestimate the importance of sex in marriage, but it cannot bring happiness to your married life when it is an act of physical urgency and does not have anything to do with your emotional closeness with your wife.
Passion means much more than being physically intimate with your wife. It is a different genre altogether.
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Shall we now have a glimpse at the 5 incredible ways you can become a passionate husband, your wife dreams of?
No 1. Incredible trick to become a passionate husband – Observe and notice your wife
Most of you think, that living in the same house with your wife makes you a perfect husband. You can never bring happiness to your wife, just by being in the same house with her. She needs much more from you.
You often live through your married life, without really noticing your wife. Though you do not notice the good things about your wife, you are the first to comment derisively when she does something you do not like. Your comments are so wounding and insulting, that your wife feels used, and unloved by you.
Your wife does so much for you and your children, but you coolly overlook it and take it for granted that she is only doing her duty. Your wife takes pains to look smashing and attractive before you, but you do not have time for her beauty. You appreciate the good looks of your female colleagues, but ignore the painstaking efforts of your wife to look good before you. Your wife longs for appreciative words from you. You have none for her.
This is not the way to be a passionate husband. Your eyes should instantly light up, when you see your wife looking beautiful. You should not only observe the good looks of your wife. You should also notice your wife’s monumental contribution towards your family. You should never let even a single good work of your wife, go unnoticed and unappreciated by you.
When you appreciate your wife, your words should convey how much she means to you. When you add more love to your appreciation, by hugging or kissing her, your wife literally floats in cloud nine. Your romantic ways of showing your wife your love, means so much to her.
An emotionally and physically demonstrative husband is her dream man.
No 2. Incredible trick to be a passionate husband – Be protective and caring
Your emotional support, gives your wife a secured feeling of being loved and cherished in her married life. When you form a protective ring around your wife, so that no one dares to insult her, she literally basks in your love.
When your wife falls sick, you are not the regular husband who takes her to the doctor and buys her the medicines. You take leave from your work to look after her. You give her the medicine personally and prepare her the specified diet prescribed by the doctor. You give her towel bath, comb her hair and change her dress with the care of a mother. Your eyes show your deep care and love for your wife.
When your wife gets back to form, you make her know how much you missed having her around the house. You call her when she is at work, and enquire about her health. Your wife feels overwhelmingly happy, when you demonstrate such attention and care towards her.
Such a caring husband is a rarity though.
No 3. Incredible trick to be a passionate husband – Gifting and pampering your wife
As a woman, your wife adores it when you gift her on her special days. But most of you do not buy your wife gifts, as you forget the date of her birthday. You are so practical, that there are many other important financial commitments in the family than to gift your wife.
When you do so, your wife thinks that you are a miserly husband who calculates money even for gifting her. Your wife does not look at the cost of the things you gift her. It is your remembering the special days of your wife, that makes her feel happy. Your wife loves it, when you take her out to a restaurant, as a break from the monotonous drudgery she faces daily.
No 4. Incredible trick to be a passionate husband – Looking good before your wife
You want your wife to look presentable and well-groomed before you. You make fun of her, when she is plump. But you fail to notice, how shabby and potbellied you look before her.
When you take care of your appearance and look trim and toned, she feels romantically inclined towards you. When you dress smartly and look presentable before your wife, she likes your efforts to look good before her.
Though love does not increase because you look good, it is a plain fact that physical appearance does play a vital part in making your wife feel attracted to you. When you look at your wife with a passionate glint in your eyes, I am sure she will go weak in the knees with incredible love for you.
Your wife adores your romantic gestures of love, as it makes her feel womanly and utterly feminine.
No 5. Incredible trick to be a passionate husband – Earning good money
You might wonder how your earning capacity comes under the category of a passionate husband.
Can you ever act passionate, when your purse is empty?
Will you ever feel indulgent and caring towards your wife, when there is nil balance in your bank account?
The answer is a simple no.
When you do not have money, you cannot act passionate towards your wife. On the flip side, you act edgy and nervous towards her. When you are penniless, you cannot act romantic, as your thoughts are preoccupied by your present financial drubbing.
But when you earn well, it gives a stature to your personality and it does make your wife look at you with respect. Your wife loves you, even if you do not have money. But when you have money and lots of it, she feels proud that you are an able and proficient person.
When you have money, you can afford to be lavish with your wife. Your money gives her the financial security she expects from you. Money has the incredible power, to make your relationship stress free and tension free.
CONCLUSION
Passion is nothing, but acting in a way that makes your wife feel totally loved by you. Your romantic gestures, your caring attitude, your indulgent behavior and your appreciative nature, makes your wife love being married to you.
When your wife loves being married to you, it just means you have all the add-ons of a passionate husband.
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