What are the different types of wives that exist in a married life?
You can never classify wives into a particular number. There are different types of wives – very varied and interesting too.
‘Wickets are like wives. You never know what to expect from them.’ –Navjot Singh Sidhu
‘A good wife is God’s blessing to man’ so goes an old Indian saying.
How true it is.
Your life is comfortable and easy to live if you are gifted with a good wife. When your wife has all the ingredients of a perfect partner, your marriage is heavenly.
But the sad fact is that dreams often do not realize. You are frequently disappointed when your wife locks horns with you, making your married life miserable and depressed.
Yes.
Among the different types of wives, a good wife is the rarest.
Does your wife fit into any of these types of wives? – The last one is your dream wife
1. The bad tempered wife
When your wife is bad-tempered she is very demanding and unreasonable. Her anger makes your married life hellish and nightmarish. She never controls her emotions. She has a wild temperament and a lashing tongue.
- Your angry wife always finds fault in whatever you do.
- You can never satisfy her
- You cannot voice your opinion.
- She nags you as if you were a fool.
- She is very dominating and controlling.
Your bad-tempered wife is very irritable and makes you dazed with helpless resentment with her anger and edginess. You do not like to be home as your wife makes you feel jailed and imprisoned by her dominating behavior.
But you dare not be late as you have to be on time because your wife has commanded you to reach home immediately after your work.
You do not love your bad-tempered wife as you are bitter about her unreasonable anger. Though you do not openly show it, you feel isolated from her. Your wife never realizes that she is a loser as she does not have your true love.
2. The over-possessive wife
Your over-possessive wife literally clings to you by demanding all your attention. She wants you beside her 24\7. It makes you feel overwhelmingly suffocated.
- You cannot watch TV as you like.
- You cannot go out with your friends
- You cannot spend time with your parents as your wife always claims you are all hers.
Your over-possessive wife says “I love you so much that I cannot share you with anyone.” But you feel your wife is leeching you off your freedom.
In her overpossessiveness your wife is denying you your personal space.
When your wife clings to you, you mind rears in protest. This leads to harsh and bitter arguments between you.
The most suffocating amongst the types of wives!
3. The beautiful but negligent wife.
Your wife is a beauty and is very conscious of it.
She has an enviable figure, and when she ventures out all eyes are on her.
You must be a very proud husband, I am sure. But surprisingly you shake your head negatively.
It is true that the beauty of your wife dazed you in the initial days of your marriage. Your head tilted with pride when you stepped out with your beautiful wife and your friends wowed at your prized possession.
“This beauty is all mine” you proudly patted yourself.
But you become resentful when your wife becomes too obssessive about her beauty.
- Your beauty conscious wife preens before the mirror while your stomach rumbles in hunger.
- She does not really know your needs as her total concentration is on polishing her beauty.
- Your beautiful wife keeps your house like a pig sty as she does not care.
- She is a high maintenance girl.
- Your wife spends tons of money to keep pace with the latest fashion trends.
You no longer ogle at the beauty of your wife as you now know her ugly inside.
4. The over-confident wife
Your over-confident wife is confirmed that she is superior to you when she earns more than you. She is very independent and makes decisions without consulting you.
- Your over-confident wife decides arbitrarily what is good for the family.
- You hate to talk with her as she is always bossy and dominating.
- Your wife compares you with her more successful colleagues.
- Your blood boils at her haughtiness.
- Your wife is more masculine than feminine and you do not feel attracted to her.
You and your wife are more like two islands at home. Your over-confident wife is in her own arrogant world and you are in your world of isolation. There is no friendly conversation between you.
You lose all interest in your wife.
Your over-confident wife is the most irritating among the different types of wives.
5. The obedient-wife
Your obedient-wife is more than ready to listen to you. She never back answers when you are angry. She asks your permission for whatever she does. She makes you feel you are the king of the family.
- She needs your guidance to run the home.
- She always wants you to be the deciding authority for the family.
- She cooks your favorite dishes with loving care.
- She looks after your children and maintains the house with dedication.
Is she your dream girl among the different types of wives?
No.
‘My wife is not my companion as she is more of a maid,’ you lament.
You cannot share your work related problems with your obedient-wife as she does not have any solutions to the issues you are facing in your workplace. You cannot discuss important family issues with her as she is not confident enough to give you suggestions.
She makes your married life monotonous and dull.
6. A great companion-wife
Your companion wife is-more of a friend to you. She is very self-confident but not arrogant.
You can talk about anything in the world with your wife. She looks after you with love and laughs a lot at your humor. She is humorous and you can tease her. She adores you when you do that.
- When you are worried, she is at your side to comfort you.
- She takes care of her appearance to please you.
- She also cares for her home.
- She respects your family.
- She treats you with loving respect.
- She is confident to point out your faults, not in a commanding way, but in a friendly manner.
Your companion-wife is your pillar of strength and you become totally dependent on her because of the easiness she brings into your life. You enjoy every moment with her as she is very comfortable to live with.
Your companion wife asks your opinion before she does anything, but she makes sure that the final decision is always hers. You respect your wife for that.
Your wife who gives you great companionship is the best among the different types of wife, isn’t she?
A friendly advice to the modern wife
Your newly found financial independence should give you self-assurance and not arrogance. You cannot tame your husband with your over-confidence. Nor can you win his love by dominating him.
Be assertive without being dominant. Look presentable without being obsessed by it. Interact with friendliness without being slavish.
Simple qualities your husband expects from you to be his dream wife.
Mel says
You forgot the wives that do everything.and dont put up with the its a man thing. You get used to it. That’s me its called a strong woman.not submissive. I proudly raise my girls strong and INDEPENDENT. And they will be the same.
Mathi says
Mel,
I am happy you are strong and confident. I am not saying wives should be submissive. A mentally strong wife looks after her family well than a meek and docile wife.
Daryl says
Just a quick question to the last response to Mel. I know you have girls. The question is What would You teach a boy about the same topic?. I have girls and I teach them equally through communication and respect for ones self which in turn they respect anyone , without telling them one sex is better or stronger then the other. Just curious
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Amukowa says
God bless
Tonnyvitch Wandera says
Did you know that one may decide to be obedient wife depending on the education background or level? Since she cannot measure academically, she decides to compasate through her daily activities.