There are many magical ways to appreciate your life partner, but most of you are completely unaware of its fairy-tale like results in your married life.
In fact, most of you wonder why a big deal is made about appreciating your spouse. If you feel so, you are underestimating the magic appreciation can do to your marriage. Appreciation is a magical wand, that does wonders in building your relationship.
Let me explain it further.
What motivates an artist to perform well before an audience?
It is the applause from them.
When will you feel, that you are valued in your work place?
It is when the management appreciates your proficiency.
How do your employees stay loyal to you?
It is when you appreciate their dedication and hard work.
Can you see how appreciation works in all spheres of your life?
It is no different in your marriage also.
Appreciation is an easy trick to make your partner feel, that you are not taking him\her for granted. Your appreciation also signals to your partner, that you value his\her contribution in making your life comfortable and relaxed.
You too need appreciation from your partner. When your partner is not appreciative, you feel cheated and ignored. On the contrary, you feel blessed when your spouse notices your good qualities and appreciates you for it.
There is not a single human being who does not want to be appreciated.
How can your life partner be any different?
Shall we now look at the 5 magical ways to appreciate your life partner?
No 1. Magical ways to appreciate your life partner is to be noticing and observing
Most of you feel, that it is the duty of your partner to look after you, and that there is nothing to appreciate him\her about it.
How wrong you are!
It is very true, that it is the commitment of your partner to take care of you. But you cannot take the care and love of your partner for granted. You must understand, that the commitment of your partner has his\her intense love for you behind it.
So, never ever overlook your partner, and make him\her feel used and discarded by you. Make your partner realize, that you are observing the contribution he\she makes in making your life comfortable and relaxed.
When you coolly ignore the relentless contribution of your partner, you only make him\her feel unnoticed and unappreciated. But when you appreciate small things about your spouse, it works wonders in your relationship.
- When your partner helps you in your household work, or otherwise, appreciate it.
- When your spouse is instant in repayments and bill payments, appreciate it.
Your appreciation instantly makes your partner realize, that you like being married to him\her. This feeling means a lot in any marriage.
No 2. Magical way to appreciate your life partner is by giving positive reactions
You easily appreciate your colleagues, as you need their help in your workplace. You appreciate your friends, as you do not want to let go your friendship. You appreciate your employees, as you want their loyalty and sincerity.
You perfectly understand, that when you are appreciative it gives you many positive results. But strangely, you do not apply appreciation in your relationship with your partner.
This is indeed sad.
- When you appreciate your life partner, it makes him\her feel that you value him\her.
- Your appreciation makes your spouse feel wanted by you.
When you are appreciative, the commitment ratio of your relationship increases double fold. Your love for each other intensifies.
No 3. Magical way to appreciate your life partner is uttering love messages
Most of you feel that appreciating your partner is not at all needed, and that it is an artificial way to show the intensity of your love. This is a wrong way to live through your married life. When you do not display your love, your partner feels left out in your life. This is dangerous to your relationship.
By not being appreciative, you are only missing the most wonderful way of showing your love and care for your life partner.
Do not ever lock your intense love for your spouse, without openly displaying it. By hiding your love and appreciation, you will be unable to enjoy the beautiful moments of your married life.
Do you have to use elaborate words to show your appreciation for your spouse?
Not at all!
- Small physical gestures speak volumes of your love, more than your words.
- An affectionate hug, a pat in the cheeks, holding hands in love are all magical way of appreciating your spouse.
“Thank you, honey, it means a lot to me”
“I do not know what I would do without you”
Such simple words, aren’t they?
But such appreciating words are an awesome tool, to make your spouse feel happy and fulfilled that his\her contribution towards the family is noticed and admired by you.
Strangely, most of you do not utter these appreciating words after a few years of marriage. When you forget to appreciate your life partner, you will be complicating your married life, as your unappreciative nature makes him\her feel completely unloved and uncared by you.
No 4. Magical ways to appreciate your partner is to make him\her cared and loved
When you do not appreciate your spouse, he\she feels that you are callously using him\her for your own comfort.
On the contrary, when you always have a word of appreciation for your life partner for his or her every thoughtful work for the family, it brings a sense of goodness into your relationship.
When you appreciate each other, the level of attraction between you increases. Appreciation is that much of a magnet, which pulls both towards each other. When you are appreciative, your partner emphatically feels that you are loving and caring, and so feels emotionally attracted to you.
Yes!
Appreciation has the enticement of a magnet.
No 5. Magical ways to appreciate your partner is by giving your best to your relationship
You must give your utmost to your relationship. When you live through your married life mechanically, and routinely, you will fail to notice the good qualities of your spouse.
When you are appreciative towards your spouse, it brings a warm glow of love into your relationship.
- Be supportive towards the emotions of your partner, as a token of your appreciation.
- Respect the feelings of your spouse.
- Make your spouse feel loved, protected and cherished by you.
- Never let down your partner anytime, anywhere in your life.
CONCLUSION
When you are appreciative, love between you deepens so much so, that it extends the longevity of your marriage.
Yes!
An appreciated partner is content and happy, and more than willing to make your life fulfilled and satisfied.
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